"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why video games are so addicting and what to do about it

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When i was younger i would play around 8 hours a day CS 1.6.
Luckly, my parents took my pc away and was able to grow out of it.
Now, 3 years after whenever a friend comes to my house my first insticnt is to say:"Lets go outside".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Games shouldn't be seen as a negative; unless it's in extreme circumstances (ie, you start missing lectures/work/whatever for a game, you start screwing up your sleeping patterns, etc etc).

It all comes down to balance. Sure, go play games, but dont spend every breathing hour of every day dedicated to a game (unless someone's paying you to play it).

It's also funny how the article likes to focus on the negatives that games bring.

Remember there are other things in life that are even more addictive and more destructive than games! (girls for one)
 

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i am not addicted to video games at all. i have no consoles or anything, i have a computer and at most play the odd boring game every now and then cause my computer isn't exactly a gaming machine. :)
 

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I do not take credit for this Article, it was written by Mary Schlimme

I stopped reading after that.
 
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