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Why understanding feminism is relevant to you

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Getting the ideology right means getting the game right.
If you're not real, you might as well go home.

Unless you completely strip away all the BS feminism that has crept in since the 1970s, much of which you're probably unaware you even subscribe to (like a fish unaware of the water in which he swims), you will not be all that you can be.

Getting to this pre-1970s, 1960s mindset will have many, many benefits:

-You'll get higher standards that 99% of modern women can't fill, leading to a significant decrease in desperation
-You won't commit to anyone who is not worth committing to.
-When you do commit to someone, you will have a much happier relationship where the woman's power is set at zero and her role is to serve you, rather than living with the unhappy illusion of equal power.
-Biblical benefits- The Bible says no woman should be in authority over a grown man.
-You'll always know the right thing to do in any situation because you'll have standards and values that govern your behavior (this is big) and you won't be fluttering in the wind. Where there was confusion (which EVERY PIECE of feminism brings), there will now be clarity.

What I find in reading this forum is that many of the problems people are having would be easily solvable if they had grown up in the earlier part of last century.

You wouldn't find your grandfather or great-grandfather on a site like this asking what he should do if his girlfriend cheated, for instance. He would know what to do-because he had VALUES.

VALUES and CHARACTER are the ultimate game. Feminism is a huge destroyer of character and WARPS your VALUES.

That is why understanding feminism and the ways that you have been unconsciously buying into it is relevant to how you live your day to day life.

Many of the really older guys are cooler than I thought. I talked to one some time ago and he goes,
"Guess what I got my wife for Valentine's Day?"
Me: "What?"
Old guy: "A pizza! LOL!"
Me: LOL


These really old dudes are hilarious. They all seem to have game naturally.

Comprehensive List of Concepts to Internalize to Convert Your Mindset to that of a pre-feminist man:
- Women are supposed to be submissive and obedient to men.
- Women are supposed to respect men and behave deferentially towards them.
-Women are supposed to trust men.
- Women should never be in authority over grown men in any capacity whatsoever. Teachers and secretaries are good occupations for women because of this.
- When a woman falls in love and gets married, she should BELONG to that man and change her name and bank account over to express this unity.
- After a woman is married, the man should be the head of the wife, and the man should get to tell the woman how to run her life and she should LIKE it.
- After a woman is married, the woman should scrap her career if possible, take care of domestic things and raising children, and she should LIKE it. She should serve her man.
-“Sexism” is a BS word. Strike it from your vocabulary because it doesn’t exist.
-“Macho” is a BS word. Strike it from your vocabulary because it doesn’t exist. “Macho” is a good thing, btw.
-Real men are not emotional; they don’t give a sh!t. Masculine power. Take no sh!t. This is a desirable trait to have.
-Men are masters of the outdoors; a woman’s place is in the home (and if she’s in the home she might as well be in the kitchen, hehe)
-Women should dress up at all times, even at home. It is pleasing to men.
-Men should dress up at all times, even at home. It makes him feel like a man.
-Women should stay slim.
-Men should love women but women should obey men. That’s the contract. Women should know their place and expect to be dominated by men.
-Men can date and marry much younger women. This is absolutely acceptable. Such men are older and wiser and can tell a young woman what to do, making her feel secure.
-It is perfectly acceptable socially to compliment a woman on her looks or on her outfit. That goes for opening doors and all that other stuff.

Bottom line: The “patriarchy”, as feminists put it, is actually an awesome worldview to have, and it makes you come down on today’s women with a WAY, WAY, stronger hand than any of your competition, simply because you will recognize that their behavior is so wildly out of line with how it should be.

Remember: Masculine force. Masculine power. Having values. Having character. That’s what this is all about.
Please, feel free to contribute to the list or discussion.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Uh huh...go on...
 

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This is very good. Not all men deserve this though, because many men are pussies or jerks.

Honestly Western women have been ruined in terms of marriage. Now they are good for sex, and entertainment.

Its very foolish to get married, at least until you know what you are doing, and its 2nd nature to handle women, and read them.
 

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Biblical benefits- The Bible says no woman should be in authority over a grown man.
-You'll always know the right thing to do in any situation because you'll have standards and values that govern your behavior (this is big) and you won't be fluttering in the wind. Where there was confusion (which EVERY PIECE of feminism brings), there will now be clarity.
OP please go on.....(this is music to my ears)

When I was speaking about this in 2012 when I use to blog, the manosphere was calling me crazy. The problem is even guys who are in the "know" want sluts. You can't have both good girls and sluts you must choose

The truth is, once the country got away from the bible in schools/court/etc that's when women went full on slutso---this is real facts!

Women need to submit to man, and God. If not she is unruly and this has been proven in the bible itself (story of adam and eve, deliah, noah's daugthers etc)

CostaDeSol said:
i just want to get laid
And this is why women are running the world and have men by their balls, we have cast ourside our mascluinity for some PUZZY!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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CostaDeSol said:
i just want to get laid
I want to accomplish somthing, make money, and be respected because I'm good at what I do.

Pvssy should never be main priority, mastering yourself and accomplishing what ever you want should be.
 

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hate to break it to some of you guys, but we no longer live in the world that jerry mathers did on leave it to ******

edit* LOL @ the word beav3r being blocked by the forum
 

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As ridiculous as feminism may be, what you are advocating would most likely fail in practice even if it sounds pretty in theory. It would take a societal collapse for women to actually be put back in the kitchen again (which is a caricature of historical women; a very large portion of them worked, especially those who weren't upper class). Additionally, your biblical crap wont resonate with atheists.
 

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TheODB said:
your biblical crap wont resonate with atheists.
Oooh, biblical "crap." We've got a tough guy. LOL

Atheism sucks, has always sucked. Atheism is like feminism- results in miserable, unhappy people.

But this post is not about religion- it is about de-feminizing your mind so you can be a better man.
 

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Darth said:
Oooh, biblical "crap." We've got a tough guy. LOL

Atheism sucks, has always sucked. Atheism is like feminism- results in miserable, unhappy people.

But this post is not about religion- it is about de-feminizing your mind so you can be a better man.
Hey, all I'm saying is that a ssubstantial portion of people involved in this community either aren't religious at all, are Sunday catholics at best, or at the very least do not share the type of morality espoused in the Bible. You DO realize that both hyper-traditionalism AND modern feminism have the primary effect of turning men into disposable entities, right?

You also don't seem to understand that you're chasing after a fantasy that didn't actual exist historically, and cannot be put in place in the present day in any case.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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TheODB said:
Hey, all I'm saying is that a ssubstantial portion of people involved in this community either aren't religious at all, are Sunday catholics at best, or at the very least do not share the type of morality espoused in the Bible. You DO realize that both hyper-traditionalism AND modern feminism have the primary effect of turning men into disposable entities, right?

You also don't seem to understand that you're chasing after a fantasy that didn't actual exist historically, and cannot be put in place in the present day in any case.
DUde, I'm living it. Just internalize the principles, and then apply them to present day life. It rocks.

See I don't care if a woman is a 10 anymore. If she's a b!tch that makes her a 1 because she's contradicting basic principles.

What this does is puts the emphasis on a woman's attitude. Once you see what the woman's attitude should be, the jarring disconnect between that and what you get from modern women will make you not want them.

Which will in turn make them want you. "Why doesn't he want me?" they'll think.

And then it's up to you. You can date them if you want, but your attitude is always that you're putting up with the woman, not that you are lucky to have her- simply because you know that she is lucky to be dating YOU, with her fundamentally sh!tty attitude! (unless of course she does have an attitude in keeping with the principles. If so, HANG ON to her)

Adopting the 1950s-60s mindset gives you INNER GAME.
 

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There is another (esoteric) level to that 'women should be subject to men' line of biblical thinking.

It is referring to matter (feminine) being subject to mind (masculine). In the sense that our carnal desires should not dictate our intellect.

When the mind is in control of matter you have a person in control/heaven.

When matter is in control of mind you have all sorts of addictions that lead to an internal world of hell - be it food, sex, drugs whatever.
 

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Darth said:
DUde, I'm living it. Just internalize the principles, and then apply them to present day life. It rocks.

See I don't care if a woman is a 10 anymore. If she's a b!tch that makes her a 1 because she's contradicting basic principles.

What this does is puts the emphasis on a woman's attitude. Once you see what the woman's attitude should be, the jarring disconnect between that and what you get from modern women will make you not want them.

Which will in turn make them want you. "Why doesn't he want me?" they'll think.

And then it's up to you. You can date them if you want, but your attitude is always that you're putting up with the woman, not that you are lucky to have her- simply because you know that she is lucky to be dating YOU, with her fundamentally sh!tty attitude! (unless of course she does have an attitude in keeping with the principles. If so, HANG ON to her)

Adopting the 1950s-60s mindset gives you INNER GAME.
I agree that to a certain extent, adopting a pre feminism mindset can give you an advantage in dealing with women . I'm referring more to attempts to push women back into highly traditional and domestic roles. How many women have you convinced to leave their jobs? How many women do you know would stop working outside the home and actually mean it?
 

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TheODB said:
I agree that to a certain extent, adopting a pre feminism mindset can give you an advantage in dealing with women . I'm referring more to attempts to push women back into highly traditional and domestic roles. How many women have you convinced to leave their jobs? How many women do you know would stop working outside the home and actually mean it?
Maybe we can't change the world, but we can certainly do something about our own private lives.

If your girl is not ready to drop everything including her job to be with you...maybe you should consider not marrying her. This holds especially true once the first child is born. Before then, there is room for flexibility.

How many women do I know who would do it? Not many. But that doesn't mean you should abandon a superior worldview. It just means finding a girl that meets all of the proper criteria, and competing for THOSE women with other guys like me who want the same thing.

Let the other 99% of women with the wrong attitude go out with other guys who do not respect themselves enough to get a top-shelf wife.
 

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Darth said:
Oooh, biblical "crap." We've got a tough guy. LOL

Atheism sucks, has always sucked. Atheism is like feminism- results in miserable, unhappy people.

But this post is not about religion- it is about de-feminizing your mind so you can be a better man.
OFF TOPIC: don't take it personally, and by no means do i mean to offend you / your religion, but bashing others because they don't believe your particular interpretation of an imaginary authority is not cool.

i have both christian, atheist, buddhist and muslim friends, and neither of them sucks, not their world view. i actually admire some of my atheist friends, because those who are moral, they are moral because they want to be, not to get in some imaginary promised dreamland, or are afraid of fire.

i think religion and belief / disbelief is a personal matter, and neither of it "sucks". especially not in a forum like this. if a muslim would try to promote "quran" values to you, you would react just as the atheists react on "bible" values.

you should be tolerant of others. especially while subscribing to the "religion of love" intolerance is insecurity.

ON TOPIC: i agree with what you have said (even with the bible part LOL). of course for this, men also should be dependable, good leaders and men with honor. hard to find men like that nowadays. we can thank feminism for this mostly.

also we should see that, if that system would have worked well, there wouldn't have been a reason for feminism to be born. some women really were in a dire situation, because it sucks to respect a man who beats you, and treats you as a personal slave.

for us, DJ's, the main goal is to build values and quality, to become a MAN, and only get into LTR with women who provide values, quality and respect you.
 

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Darth said:
Maybe we can't change the world, but we can certainly do something about our own private lives.

If your girl is not ready to drop everything including her job to be with you...maybe you should consider not marrying her. This holds especially true once the first child is born. Before then, there is room for flexibility.

How many women do I know who would do it? Not many. But that doesn't mean you should abandon a superior worldview. It just means finding a girl that meets all of the proper criteria, and competing for THOSE women with other guys like me who want the same thing.

Let the other 99% of women with the wrong attitude go out with other guys who do not respect themselves enough to get a top-shelf wife.
I have no interest in being entirely financially responsible for a woman and children, which is essentially the position you're furthering, regardless of my income level. Truthfully, I'd rather see women pull their own weight in that regard. As far as roles for men are concerned, feminism and traditional values both stack the deck against men by either reducing them to nonentities (the bs "I don't need a man" mantra repeated by feminists ad nauseum) or placing the entire burden of financial responsibility for another on them (your so called biblical views).
 

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What's crazy is that women wanted this equality but still deeply want and desire to have things be the way before they started the feminist movement
 

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CrimsonPanther said:
OFF TOPIC: don't take it personally, and by no means do i mean to offend you / your religion, but bashing others because they don't believe your particular interpretation of an imaginary authority is not cool.

i have both christian, atheist, buddhist and muslim friends, and neither of them sucks, not their world view. i actually admire some of my atheist friends, because those who are moral, they are moral because they want to be, not to get in some imaginary promised dreamland, or are afraid of fire.

i think religion and belief / disbelief is a personal matter, and neither of it "sucks". especially not in a forum like this. if a muslim would try to promote "quran" values to you, you would react just as the atheists react on "bible" values.

you should be tolerant of others. especially while subscribing to the "religion of love" intolerance is insecurity.

ON TOPIC: i agree with what you have said (even with the bible part LOL). of course for this, men also should be dependable, good leaders and men with honor. hard to find men like that nowadays. we can thank feminism for this mostly.

also we should see that, if that system would have worked well, there wouldn't have been a reason for feminism to be born. some women really were in a dire situation, because it sucks to respect a man who beats you, and treats you as a personal slave.

for us, DJ's, the main goal is to build values and quality, to become a MAN, and only get into LTR with women who provide values, quality and respect you.
You sir, get repped! Excellent.
 

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JaegerPilot217 said:
What's crazy is that women wanted this equality but still deeply want and desire to have things be the way before they started the feminist movement
Correct. And the proper course of action is to not give them what they want in the manner you describe.
 
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