"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why UG's and no hotties..

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DonMEgaHoss

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Why is it that UG's think they can have a sexy good looking guy?
Like people in hell want ice water, fat women wanna be skinny.. UG's think they are hot and think they can get you.

Im not saying Im uber handsome man-model or anything but Im above average. 6'3" and 175 pounds Im lean and fairly musclar.. But not as defined as I could be ( thats why Im in the gym.) Blue eyes light brown hair. Surfer/ Lifeguard/Cook...

But enough about that. Like fat and ugly chicks try to talk to me all the time Im not an ******* so I talk politely for a little bit and go on my way. But like when I go walking in a mall I see all these fine dime bizzles looking at me and all.. I can talk to them and they warm up but for the most part I think they are more imtimadated of me than the UGs and fatties..Or afraid of rejection more than the ugs and fatties.. which is stupid since there hot as hell..

Like a work they're is this uber hot ass MILF gives me the vibes I can feel it in my gut. But we hardly talk... Well I have to guard so I gotta keep most if not all my attention on the swimmers.

So why do fatties and ug's talk to me and not hardly any hotties?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheInfamousCBear

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Cause no guys want them, and if they do its just for a jump off...There are some girls that are unwanted by men cause they are so busted, they become dykes...
 
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Probably because there ugly girls, are wired biologically the same at hot girls. If you are an attractive guy.. they will both find you attractive. But the important part, is that.. these undesireable women, have more to lose. Because their looks set them at a disadvantage, they are probably desperate for attention. They have learn over the years that guys wont come to them, so they have to go to the guys.

On the other hand. These hotties.. can get almost any guy they want. You.. or any other guy. They might be attracted to you, but their actions wont be so obvious. Thats when you may need to take the initiative.

If you do, and you still have these problems. Maybe its simply because you are polite and nice. Maybe they see you from a distance and dont feel threatened by you. They think "hey this could be one of those cute guys who doesnt care about looks" So they go in for the kill.

but who knows...
 
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Thanks for the input juslen Im just very charismatic when talking just something I do. But Im not always like that I have my share of jerkiness in me.

Also after thinking about it some. Hotties are the one that have the farthest to fall if they approach a guy and get rejected
than a ug or fat chick since they are already low.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well,

Actually they have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Plus you must be showing somekind of interest for them to be interested.
 
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I cant help it! Damnit! I have to look at them periodically to ensure their safety...damn.. Im screwed.... Thanks for the uplifting post mightymate... lol funny though.
 
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Also if you come off as one of those one of those guys who sees "inner Beauty" then, aka...Mr. Nice Guy.

Try showing signs of being shallow..
 
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I guess when i look at it. The UG's have less to lose...

Since they are so used to getting rejected. What do they have to lose? They have been rejected so many times.. why stop at the 100th time. After all, they are just playing the lottery. Eventually they will win. But how long are they willing to wait?
 
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Why an unwanted woman would approach a guy is fairly simple. They don't get approached often themselves and have to be more agrresive. As far as why they think they can get good looking guys I'm not so sure, but I've heard many of these women brag that they give great head, never cheat, can cook, ect. ect. Maybe they believe if they can get thier foot in the door that they can eventually break you down with pampering charm.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't talk to the hotties, just say "Hey, I'm working give me your #." Then take them on an action date. :) Then you can open them up slowly, cause you won't have much time to talk if you go to the right place.

P.S. I'd kill to be in your shoes. I'd be dating HBs left and right.
 
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UGs think that most guys will sleep with anything, so they assume that they have a chance with most guys, which includes the goodlooking ones.
 
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