Why there is no second chance

[JohnyTheArrow]

There is almost no "second chance" because :

1) Women don't leave men like that. You must become looser in her mind who doesn't deserve her *****.To take you back she would have to admit to herself she made fundamental mistake.People and women esp. HATE it, they would rather live with the mistake than admit they did it.

2 ) Just after breakup, all her friends ask "Oh,you both aren't together anymore?" She will tell then all her friends, family you are ****ing looser. Taking you back would mean she would lose face with friends and family.

3 ) Your begging makes you look pathetic and gives her sadistic pleasure.Being weak is totally uncool and unsexy for a woman, and imprints further "looser" in her mind

4 ) Hypergamy - she found somebody who she thinks is better than you

That's ****ing why. Men are logical, they think if they beg,submit,ask,show and tell about her love she will come back but she won't because of reasons stated above.

If she dumps you, treat her like a dog who bites you.She needs to be replaced.

 

[mikey2012]

There is almost no "second chance" because :

1) Women don't leave men like that. You must become looser in her mind who doesn't deserve her *****.To take you back she would have to admit to herself she made fundamental mistake.People and women esp. HATE it, they would rather live with the mistake than admit they did it.

2 ) Just after breakup, all her friends ask "Oh,you both aren't together anymore?" She will tell then all her friends, family you are ****ing looser. Taking you back would mean she would lose face with friends and family.

3 ) Your begging makes you look pathetic and gives her sadistic pleasure.Being weak is totally uncool and unsexy for a woman, and imprints further "looser" in her mind

4 ) Hypergamy - she found somebody who she thinks is better than you

That's ****ing why. Men are logical, they think if they beg,submit,ask,show and tell about her love she will come back but she won't because of reasons stated above.

If she dumps you, treat her like a dog who bites you.She needs to be replaced.

Not true.. I seen betas and cuckolds get back the chick. If you're real beta enough and she likes that then you may get her back...

 

[djthiago1]

Not true.. I seen betas and cuckolds get back the chick. If you're real beta enough and she likes that then you may get her back...

They're usually doormats.

 

[captain55]

As for #1 - The last chick I dated went around telling everyone I was her soulmate, introduced me to her family and parents, and literally wouldn't shut the **** about me to her friends....only to dump me out of the blue. She actually dumped me a week after she introduced me to her parents, yup.
she then went around telling everyone I was abusive to hide the real truth- that she's a physcho borderline incapable of committing to a LTR. Oh well. at least I know in the back of my mind that her friends and family won't ever take her seriously when it comes to the next guy she meets.

As for the other ****, I don't agree. I've acted beta with women, to later bang them months down the road because they forgot how beta I was. Go no contact, and by that I mean completely disappear...change something about yourself physically. It can be something as small as facial hair style or getting a tan, you need to show her you changed.