“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why the Six Sixes/High value won't magically solve your girl issues

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1). It only matters if you are in the Social Circle Game- Let's think about the hottest girls you saw this week. Okay, I guarantee 100% of them were out in public somewhere which means nothing. The girl you saw looking at oranges at Kroger or HEB today doesn't know that you make six figs, drive a Porsche, etc. The only girls that know this are the girls in your social circle lol. Are you going to just go up to a random stranger at Kroger and say "Hey girl, I'm a millionaire that drives a Ferrari"....Ummm I don't think so.

2). You aren't the only one and some guys are more generous- Look at you, you make so much money and you refuse to take girls out on a date for more than $40. GUESS WHAT, there's a guy similar to you that will take a girl out to the nicest steak place in the city, then a helicopter ride, and then end it at a rooftop bar on a first date. Call him a beta male simp or whatever, he's going to get a date over you plain and simple.

3). Your time is more valuable- When you are single, broke, and full of cvm, you have all of the time in the world to think of pvssy. When you are focusing on other things, chasing tail is the last thing you want to waste your time on. Eventually, you will discover how to get pvssy within your terms(I'm going to leave it at that lol) and chasing pvssy will become something you might do on a slow vacation night lol.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I agree with pretty much everything you have said,OP.The Sixes are important when it comes to attraction,but they’re nothing more than desirable tangibles that do nothing in the wrong hands.That’s why Game is important.That’s why having confidence,charm,social skills and the right attitude will ultimately get you laid above all else,even ahead of guys who “have more” of these desirable tangibles.They may open the door for them,but it means nothing if they lack the gumption to walk through it.

This is also why it is important to know how and when to demonstrate your value.Leading with your wallet is a mistake that will only get you so far.Telling a girl,”Come on,let me take you to the fanciest restaurant in town and buy you something nice,”,will get you a date,not attraction.
 

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1). It only matters if you are in the Social Circle Game- Let's think about the hottest girls you saw this week. Okay, I guarantee 100% of them were out in public somewhere which means nothing. The girl you saw looking at oranges at Kroger or HEB today doesn't know that you make six figs, drive a Porsche, etc. The only girls that know this are the girls in your social circle lol. Are you going to just go up to a random stranger at Kroger and say "Hey girl, I'm a millionaire that drives a Ferrari"....Ummm I don't think so.
If you approach strangers at non-bar venues, being 6'0", having six pack abs, and having stylish clothes will help the cause. A woman won't be more receptive to an initial approach based upon your BMW, Porsche, or yacht. However, these things can help get you laid and retain a woman for some period of time after the initial approach. Game is some combination of looks, money, status, and persona (charisma). In most approaches of strangers (bar or non-bar) looks and persona will carry the initial approach.

I've seen guys with strong social circles be able to attract and retain women in part due to their status and possessions without having to do any cold approaching or any app swiping.

2). You aren't the only one and some guys are more generous- Look at you, you make so much money and you refuse to take girls out on a date for more than $40. GUESS WHAT, there's a guy similar to you that will take a girl out to the nicest steak place in the city, then a helicopter ride, and then end it at a rooftop bar on a first date. Call him a beta male simp or whatever, he's going to get a date over you plain and simple.
I laugh at this stuff. Men are quite thirsty. She doesn't care too much if you're unwilling to spend on her because there's a big queue of men on her electronic devices who will spend on her. Even if she's not using swipe apps and maintains a limited social media presence, she still won't have too much difficulty getting the spend.

Being a big spender might not ensure more date #1s, but it can help with getting more date #2s and 3s. In the more artificial world of swipe apps, a woman judging two offers from behind an electronic screen might take the spendier offer though. Your point has validity.

3). Your time is more valuable- When you are single, broke, and full of cvm, you have all of the time in the world to think of pvssy. When you are focusing on other things, chasing tail is the last thing you want to waste your time on. Eventually, you will discover how to get pvssy within your terms(I'm going to leave it at that lol) and chasing pvssy will become something you might do on a slow vacation night lol.
The best idea is to set up a way of being that enables you to attract and retain (if you're interested in extended relationships) women with minimal effort. Constant cold approaching and app swiping is a grueling path to follow.
 

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1). It only matters if you are in the Social Circle Game- Let's think about the hottest girls you saw this week. Okay, I guarantee 100% of them were out in public somewhere which means nothing. The girl you saw looking at oranges at Kroger or HEB today doesn't know that you make six figs, drive a Porsche, etc. The only girls that know this are the girls in your social circle lol. Are you going to just go up to a random stranger at Kroger and say "Hey girl, I'm a millionaire that drives a Ferrari"....Ummm I don't think so.
No you approach her while wearing your fresh Yeezys and allow her to notice on her own

2). You aren't the only one and some guys are more generous- Look at you, you make so much money and you refuse to take girls out on a date for more than $40. GUESS WHAT, there's a guy similar to you that will take a girl out to the nicest steak place in the city, then a helicopter ride, and then end it at a rooftop bar on a first date. Call him a beta male simp or whatever, he's going to get a date over you plain and simple
Are there any guys with actual money that don't want to spend $40? I think it's the guys who don't make tons of money that care about the efficiency of dates.

But yeah, regular guys will lose greedy high maintenance girls to rich guys, that's life.

3). Your time is more valuable- When you are single, broke, and full of cvm, you have all of the time in the world to think of pvssy. When you are focusing on other things, chasing tail is the last thing you want to waste your time on. Eventually, you will discover how to get pvssy within your terms(I'm going to leave it at that lol) and chasing pvssy will become something you might do on a slow vacation night lol
Yeah I know what you mean, I've been so busy putting 40 hours into Elden Ring over the last 2 weeks that I barely text girls back anymore.

Uniting the great runes to mend the Elden Ring and become Elden Lord >>> Women
 
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