"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why the hostility at Sosuave?

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Lishy said:
LISTEN UP BOYS,

You listen up woman! We are onto your games and your status in relationships will soon be demoted to a PLATE. The sosuave revolution is underway so accept it or be a skeptic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FireOnTheMountain said:
I don't understand why people are so rude. It is just internet culture I guess and everyone is accustomed to being hostile. Oh well.

It isn't hard to be nice.
The question is just who is really being rude here and who deserves to be responded to "rudely".
 

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Lishy said:
Az I see you changed your question. Maybe I DO know it all, have you thought about that?
That is mentaly impossible, you would become insane. The knowledge of all is not meant for the human mind in it will isen't capable of it. Thus you don't ;).(yes i like being a wiseguy... )
By the way if you really want so much of a welcome well then...
Welcome
:)up: my good deed of today)
 

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Lishy if you are responding to men in your life who are doing the very things you're criticizing here, then. Wait what's my question?
 

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Im sure if youll meet anyone of these rude trolls they are about 13, living in the basement and having more acne than money
And never even saw a women in their entire life except for their crush, their own aunt :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ketostix said:
The question is just who is really being rude here and who deserves to be responded to "rudely".
Does anyone 'deserve' to be responded to rudely? This is something I don't 'get' about American culture.
 
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We already have proof Lishy doesn't know anything. Reset showed us the threads where she obsesses over guys who abide by rules in the DJ Bible.

Lishy is in denial. Lishy is proof the DJ Bible works.
 

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Enryu said:
Im sure if youll meet anyone of these rude trolls they are about 13, living in the basement and having more acne than money
And never even saw a women in their entire life except for their crush, their own aunt :(
Ouch, thats cold
LOL

MNN, man what are you trying to prove to her, matter fact, she's probably thinking that you're some kind of an idiot, playing magic cards.

Even though you're not.
 
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DJVladdy said:
Ouch, thats cold
LOL

MNN, man what are you trying to prove to her, matter fact, she's probably thinking that you're some kind of an idiot, playing magic cards.

Even though you're not.

It's funny because Reset showed us that link... where is it again Reset? I lost it.

Lishy obsesses over guys that probably read this site. And she is denying it.
 

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SilverSonnet said:
Erm... Dunno whether your colour blind pal, but it's red..Jeez. I cant even begin to understand why you would waste you precious time writing about what colour she has her writing. Jeez...
Why would you waste precious time writing about him writing about what color her font was? ****.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FireOnTheMountain said:
Does anyone 'deserve' to be responded to rudely? This is something I don't 'get' about American culture.
Yes a rude person does.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
It's funny because Reset showed us that link... where is it again Reset? I lost it.

Lishy obsesses over guys that probably read this site. And she is denying it.
This is the greatest ownage ever! j/k :cheer:
 

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Wtf this is about a girl? I was simply answering the general question: Why the hostility

If so then i rewrite: Go back to your Comedy love movies and afterwards if you look good enough get seduced by some DJ. After that tell all your girlfriends your new boyfriend is mysterious and handsome and all while he is in fact in a disco and getting a new girl while you are at home, sobbing and eating 2 gallons of ice cream.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
It's funny because Reset showed us that link... where is it again Reset? I lost it.

Lishy obsesses over guys that probably read this site. And she is denying it.
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=73606

Does our ego's make us want him?
Why oh why oh why oh why do we always want the guys who dont make the effort and guys who dont seem to care about you unless you are in the sack?

Why do we balk at the nice guys that we say we want, but obsess over the ones who dont give a flying crap?

When guys chase us like crazy and we are not that interested to start but then we decide we will give it a shot why do they then turn cold?

Is it just an ego thing? Do we just want what we cant have? Are we just gluttons for punishment?

Tell me pleassssssssssseeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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I just want one of these women to come here and admit we have them figured out. We are on to them, and this stuff works.

I am living proof of this. Any woman who comes on here and belittles us makes me laugh, so I feel the need to say something.

And this is all that really needs to be said, thanks for the link Nighthawk.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well one of the good things that's come from this, (and let's just say that we don't know these women personally, they could be great people but it's just a weird/fun thing happening here) is they are confirming many of the principles that we discuss here, are effective with creating attraction with women.

So take it a step further.... do we actually NEED MORE proof? We ALREADY KNOW this stuff. Don't "doubt" that being a man and controlling the frame works, or think that it's wrong because the girls complain about it. Internalize.

You don't need someone else to confirm what you know deep down to be true. That's what I'm learning from this.
 
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reset said:
Well one of the good things that's come from this, (and let's just say that we don't know these women personally, they could be great people but it's just a weird/fun thing happening here) is they are confirming many of the principles that we discuss here, are affective with creating attraction with women.

So take it a step further.... do we actually NEED MORE proof? We ALREADY KNOW this stuff. Don't "doubt" that being a man and controlling the frame works, or think that it's wrong because the girls complain about it. Internalize.

You don't need someone else to confirm what you know deep down to be true. That's what I'm learning from this.
But why are these women in denial? They come here and try to say they know everything, this site is for clowns. Then we see the threads they themselves have made, and it just confirms we have them where we want them. And it makes them look like fools.

LOL, too funny.
 

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Because part of being a woman is saying you want one thing and wanting another. THEY DON'T even understand it, lol. How could they be in denial? They are genuine in their BELIEF that they want the sweet flowery stuff. That's where the confusion comes from. Their heads say one thing but their bodies react to the other thing. They aren't lying or in denial. They mean it.

As a man it's our job to UNDERSTAND this. You KNOW what you want, on a conscious level. A woman saying one thing but not being congruent with it, immaterial. You already know the deal, that this is how it is.

You don't need to be "right" really, it's more you know how to have a successful life, without the second-guessing.

It's all kind of hitting home for me right now. I may not have said this a few days ago, but this whole thing has really enlightened me in a way, lol.
 
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reset said:
Because part of being a woman is saying you want one thing and wanting another. THEY DON'T even understand it, lol. How could they be in denial? They are genuine in their BELIEF that they want the sweet flowery stuff. That's where the confusion comes from. Their heads say one thing but their bodies react to the other thing. They aren't lying or in denial. They mean it.

As a man it's our job to UNDERSTAND this. You KNOW what you want, on a conscious level. A woman saying one thing but not being congruent with it, immaterial. You already know the deal, that this is how it is.

You don't need to be "right" really, it's more you know how to have a successful life, without the second-guessing.

It's all kind of hitting home for me right now. I may not have said this a few days ago, but this whole thing has really enlightened me in a way, lol.

I have a feeling this is the last time a woman comes here using the same name they used on LoveCrap. Their post history will sell them out, LOL.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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