sh*tdrinker
Don Juan
iM 6'3 AND I CANT DUNK!!! What can i do to get some UPS!!!!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yo dawg, good advice except for that whole getting your head above the rim thing...that's kinda hard **** ya know?Originally posted by Mr. Mystery
Jumping squats, calve raises, and sprints.
Also, flexitbility has alot to do with hops.
I have been told alot lately that I'm like 6'4, but I measured myself the other day and I'm only 6'1.
I have a friend that is 6' and when we hold our arms up, he has got 2 inches on me! I can dunk, he can't, or at least I used to be able to dunk, I haven't been ballin in about a year.
I used to get up enough to dunk easy, but my arms are short and I can't palm a ball. I used to have to either do it with two hands, or cuff it. Everybody thought it was so cool that I cuffed it when I dunked, but I just couldn't palm it.
I'm white. Hops aren't something I was born with, I still don't think I really had any hops when I was dunking back in the day. But I got my hops by doing jumping squats, calve raises, and sprints, along with balling every day for a few hours.
The reason I'm so skinny now is because of all the cardio I got from playing ball all day every day.
I plan on getting back into as a hobby once I get some pounds on me.
But like Shiftkey said, alot of it is in your head.
Try to just run up to the rim and grab it, but don't grab it till your jump reaches its peak, try to get your head above the rim. Do this without a ball. It will show you just how high you really can jump, and give you confidence in your jumping ability.
Mr. Mystery
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
haha!Originally posted by dave134
Yo dawg, good advice except for that whole getting your head above the rim thing...that's kinda hard **** ya know?
Unless your head is directly under the rim. That would hurt.Originally posted by Mr. Mystery
It can't possibly hurt to try and jump high enough to get your head above the rim.
Mr. Mystery
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
thats not too good manLOL I'm 6'9" and can't dunk...talk about sad
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i can do it, but i cannot dunkOriginally posted by tactic
put the ball into the loop