Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why the h*ll do AFC's insist on replying to every Other thread here at Sosuave?

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abbas

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This place has become a f*cking joke. Why?

Because it has gotten loaded with a bunch of AFC's who have just gotten into this stuff, read some DJ Bible material, listened to some tapes.

Now that itself is not a negative thing, but when these same AFC's insist on replying to everyother thread they read, that is when they are F*CKING UP THIS FORUM!

These AFC's are not only taking up each others time by giving sh*tty answers to each others questions, they are taking up valuable place for experienced DJ's to reply.

The way this forum SHOULD be working is:

1. AFC (about 95% of the forum population) throws out a question.

2. DJ (About 5% of the forum poplation) replies.

Now this would result in a lot fewer replies per thread, and in some threads maybe even no replies at all, BUT that is way better than the same threads getting filled up with useless, incorrect AFC-thinks-he's-gone-DJ-in-two-months BS.


My 2 cents...

PS. This does not apply to the threads where new guys try to reach a goal (for example "300 approaches") and then giving each other support in the thread, which is a one of the few GOOD newbie phenomenons here at Sosuave. Mad props to these guys getting their ass out in the field.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok read it. wont give any more opinions since im not a DJ. :)

read some of ur articles. good reads.
 

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This has been brought up before. Truth is, is that nothing will stop this problem unless we start making new rules which will take away noobs posting abilities, which i dont think the mods or Alan will approve of. So we need to either accept this forum as it is and try make the best of it, or leave.


Laterz....
 

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this isn't the only forum on the web. once you get what you wanted from here, get the hell out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Am I the only one who sees a problem here?

Abbas, honey, if you're a DJ - what have YOU done to remedy this situation? And if you're an AFC - why on earth you bitch and moan about it?

Anyhoo - take this free blowjob vaucher and go somewhere to calm your nerves. :flowers:
 

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I still think we should have a ratings system... (although I never brought it up before, someone else probably has)....

Every time a person replies/posts something, there could be a link below their post saying: "Was this post helpful?, Yes/No".

That way, after a while you will really begin to see who gives helpful advice by the accumulation of "Yes's" translating into a rating next to their name.
 

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I agree uzio.....this abbas dude is probably posting about himself out of utter frustration.

Find something better to post about loser.
 

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Re: Re: Why the h*ll do AFC's insist on replying to every Other thread here at Sosuav

Originally posted by uzio
Am I the only one who sees a problem here?

Abbas, honey, if you're a DJ - what have YOU done to remedy this situation? And if you're an AFC - why on earth you bitch and moan about it?

Anyhoo - take this free blowjob vaucher and go somewhere to calm your nerves. :flowers:
This goes out to you to speedo-meme:

First off, no I am not DJ. Second, I don't see where I b*tch or moan about beeing an AFC? (maybe you could point that one out?)

Where the hell do you piece-of-just-registered-f*cks get your attitude from?

Who the F*CK are you to complain about my behavior on the forum? I registered JANUARY 2003, almost three years ago, and although a couple of my old posts somehow have disappeared you can see from the visible posts that I never reply bull****. If I have a question I throw it out, and wait for some decent replies.

I do not see myself (nor should 95% of you chumps out there) qualified to reply to most of the threads in here.

Leave some F*CKING room for the real DJ's or get the hell out of here. There was a time before all you AFC's decided to invade, read a few articles, get the idea that you can actually help each other by talking about stuff you have never done yourself (but aah, you have read it, therefore you know it's true...) and f*ck this forum up, and it was a pretty good time.

PS. I really would like to know if anyone of you two punks (speedo-meme and the qouted one) can point out where I HAVE NOT been congruent with what I say?
 

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Re: Re: Re: Why the h*ll do AFC's insist on replying to every Other thread here at So

Originally posted by abbas
This goes out to you to speedo-meme:

Where the hell do you piece-of-just-registered-f*cks get your attitude from?

Let's see, some 20 odd posts?

Ironic, now isn't it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You really should've taken the vaucher - no matter what you say, getting a blow is helluva lot nicer then complaining about an internet forum :cheer:

And now if you excuse me - there is stuff to do :woo:
 

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Interesting topic. I usually post in the tips forum as a place holder if I want to find a thread again. I'm not yet qualified to give advice since I'm not getting the success with women I want yet.
 

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immature morons

Thread closed.


Laterz...
 

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well, you just have to filter the advice given. I know which ones are good and which ones are bad. besides, its good to see other opinions..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Why the h*ll do AFC's insist on replying to every Other thread here a

Originally posted by wowiehowie
Let's see, some 20 odd posts?

Ironic, now isn't it?
Where's the ironic part? What you qouted me saying has nothing to do with what you wrote...

But let me guess, you are talking about the fact that I said "I never reply bull****" in combination with the fact that I have only written 20 posts totally?

If that is what you mean:

Do you really not get it?

The fact that I have "only" written 20 posts IS that I don't reply bull****. Notice the word REPLY. I may write a silly question now and then, but that is something forgivable as it doesn't f*ck up someones mind. I don't ever give people false anwers.

Answering people with false facts is the worst thing you can do in here. How should the threadmaker, the guy with the actual problem, know who to thrust and who to not thrust?
 

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Originally posted by GuitarOnFire
Real DJs don't need anger management...or do they?
So I need anger management because of the fact that I am doing an effort to straighten this forum up a bit?

Even if I succeed in decreasing the BS-posts with 1% it would be worth the sh*t I am taking for this, and the effort on my behalf writing this.
 

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I actually agree with you somewhat.


I see about 7 of 10 post from people with no real life expierence.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I actually agree with you somewhat.


I see about 7 of 10 post from people with no real life expierence.
Thanks, but let's make that 9 out of 10.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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