"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why the Drive for Greatness?

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Sometimes I have to catch myself from slipping into mediocrity, weakness of mind and spirit. I have thought on this for a few days now, and my Crab Mentality post is tied to that thought process.

Why does a man want greatness? What is his motivation? Why does he feel the need to excel and succeed in life?

Because he is apart. He is meant to be apart. In this context it means creating himself. Making his mark. Being who he, himself, has decided to be. Your very DNA, the Y chromosome, is evidence of this. DNA services, such as the several family heritage sites that analyze your DNA, cannot trace genetic history through the father. It can’t be done. It is only tracked through the mother, grandmother, and so on. Every man is genetically unique. You, as a man, have always been destined for greatness. For achievement. The term for this, the description of a man’s genetics, is Monad.

To the very core, you want to be something more than a mere cog in a wheel, more than some pansy dancing around the flower pasture to the tune of your supposed masters.

Claim your birthright, gentlemen. Be the man apart. Be the monad. Your days of placating must end if you are to rise.

-Mufasa
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're not apart as much as you are striving for polarity, because without context you can not be. There must be dark to make out the light and vice versa. You are not you without your environment and the contrast it creates.
 

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This has to be nominated for the dumbest thread of the year on SS!!! You want to strive for greatness not for the ladies, but for youself!!!!
 

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This has to be nominated for the dumbest thread of the year on SS!!! You want to strive for greatness not for the ladies, but for youself!!!!
I believe that's what he's talking about
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This has to be nominated for the dumbest thread of the year on SS!!! You want to strive for greatness not for the ladies, but for youself!!!!
You just have pulled from it what you wanted to. Read it again.
 

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"Hapiness runs after me. That is because I do not run after women. Happiness, however, is a woman."
 

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Nietzsche said man is the rope stretched between animal and the superman. He is a bridge, not the goal.
We all have a battle between doing what is right and what is easy. Those little decisions to do what is easy brings you more to the animal and doing what is right brings you more to the "ideal". The drive for greateness is your self awareness clawing to get out.
I see your point of view, to a certain extent. My observation has been that the more a man denies or suppresses himself and his masculinity, the more feminine and reactive he becomes. He becomes a totally different thing entirely, and a self destructive mess, bumbling around the world wreaking havoc on his own life and the people around him. I’m still working on the full concept of it, but it is what I’ve come to understand.
 

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Your right. The "nice" guy is a total failure. The world need MEN to support it and guide it to freedom and safety. I know a guy who is in his 50's with no family, lives with others because he is too poor to live on his own, and is meek. I looked into his eyes once and it looked like something coming out of a swamp. Like a beaten kitten crawling out of a swamp. This is the alternative boys. Always choose the hard path and get **** done.
The meek inherit nothing. Not even good pvssy. Used and abused men, the meek.
 

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I see your point of view, to a certain extent. My observation has been that the more a man denies or suppresses himself and his masculinity, the more feminine and reactive he becomes. He becomes a totally different thing entirely, and a self destructive mess, bumbling around the world wreaking havoc on his own life and the people around him. I’m still working on the full concept of it, but it is what I’ve come to understand.
What does that say about reactive women haha
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sometimes I have to catch myself from slipping into mediocrity, weakness of mind and spirit. I have thought on this for a few days now, and my Crab Mentality post is tied to that thought process.

Why does a man want greatness? What is his motivation? Why does he feel the need to excel and succeed in life?

Because he is apart. He is meant to be apart. In this context it means creating himself. Making his mark. Being who he, himself, has decided to be. Your very DNA, the Y chromosome, is evidence of this. DNA services, such as the several family heritage sites that analyze your DNA, cannot trace genetic history through the father. It can’t be done. It is only tracked through the mother, grandmother, and so on. Every man is genetically unique. You, as a man, have always been destined for greatness. For achievement. The term for this, the description of a man’s genetics, is Monad.

To the very core, you want to be something more than a mere cog in a wheel, more than some pansy dancing around the flower pasture to the tune of your supposed masters.

Claim your birthright, gentlemen. Be the man apart. Be the monad. Your days of placating must end if you are to rise.

-Mufasa
Its been said, men have a burden of performance.

The sexual revolution and free love era is a joke. Cucks and betas thought it meant that the burdens were over. Instead, women expected poly during best yrs of top form SMV 18-23 and fallback in beta cuck as a single mom once SMV craters.

We're seeing the same thing again today. Pedal victimhood once SMV has decayed. The old social contract is incumbent and women are bringing little to nothing to the table. The giys are still competing in the dominance hierarchy. Its still about resources and pursuing the top of the mountain. Its delusional to think you can mgtow checkout and not play. It just means no Soup (poon) for you.


Seek pursuing something of true intrinsic value. I suggest fellas start a business or freelance at the very least. Learn to be a more resourceful man. I don't fathom ever retiring. I will bamg the guns of a side hustle. I wont need to be at a job. Even if I don't have a lot to clients as a old man. Its something I have to make for. I think more men will be pursuing this path given the automation and efu system which pander to women.
 
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