"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I want to know the reasoning behind the bad advice on this site.

I know the whole "You have to be positive who cares if it sucks" but really.. why does a site about getting laid have only 1% good advice (that's actually mostly common sense) and the other 99% pure sh!t?

It makes me wonder if the whole getting laid thing really has nothing to do with skill or being good at it all and it really all it really does have to do with is average looks, luck, and numbers game.

It's as if the moderators are trying to teach us a life lesson or something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If this site has 99% bad advice and bs do you really expect a good answer to that question? Actually I dont know how I can answer the question about why there is alot of bad advice, maybe someone can but thats a hard one for me.
 
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It is 99% bad advice, I mean really. Read for an hour and then try it out.

Eventually you will get laid after lots of failure. And it'll be because the chick liked you from the begining and only one sentence of that hour of reading really came into play.. such as look good and smile or something obvious.
 
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Bvbidd said:
It is 99% bad advice, I mean really. Read for an hour and then try it out.

Eventually you will get laid after lots of failure. And it'll be because the chick liked you from the begining and only one sentence of that hour of reading really came into play.. such as look good and smile or something obvious.
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Nah man untrue, its just that alot of people that don't know what the are talking about are making threads and people are believing them. Some of these are ridiculous questions that could be solved by not only reading the DJ bible, but you could just apply common sense and stop being so paranoid:

"My GF is 34 seconds late, what happened!?!?!?"
"MY Gf was onn the phone with her brother, I told her not to speak to any men, should I break up with her!?"
"MY Gf just kicked me in hte balls, raped my dog, pillaged my land and stole my toaster, how do I get her back?"


Like what the ****, common sense people.
 
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pooparu said:
Nah man untrue, its just that alot of people that don't know what the are talking about are making threads and people are believing them. Some of these are ridiculous questions that could be solved by not only reading the DJ bible, but you could just apply common sense and stop being so paranoid:

"My GF is 34 seconds late, what happened!?!?!?"
"MY Gf was onn the phone with her brother, I told her not to speak to any men, should I break up with her!?"
"MY Gf just kicked me in hte balls, raped my dog, pillaged my land and stole my toaster, how do I get her back?"


Like what the ****, common sense people.
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aww man i had to wipe the tears funny stuff LMAO :crackup: its a shame he isnt exaggerating either
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think it's just down to the fact you only ever really find a few experts in any environment. Most of those who give advice here, and this isn't meant to be offensive, is given by those who may be getting sex but are only getting it by using techniques they only have a faint grasp of.

Skill still comes into it, in that you now can get the girl you really want and keep her from cheating.

I'm curious though, who do you feel gives the good advice?
 
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I feel the good advice is given by people who do not go to extremes.

Even Pook I could tell never really got women.

I think Mr. Fingers gave some good advice but a bit of it was pretty cheesy stuff that was covering up the fact that the guy just got a life.

The good advice is just common sense.
 
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No no, the FORUMS have 99% bad advice. All the good advice is in the DJB. The forums are for fun and reassurance.

And the reason it stinks here is because the "General Forum" is actually "High School Forum # 2"

And the registration should be more laborious, so it takes more than 10 seconds to make a new account

. . . . And anyone who asks "does she like me?" or "my ex texted me . . ." should be banned at once.

We're gonna need more mod's. I volunteer.
 
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Yeah but Phyzzle, the DJB just gives you a bunch of advice on being happy without women and being independant.. not actually getting them. It's good advice.. but when you start reading Pook talk about testotorone being THE deciding factor in getting women.. you just can't help but laugh.
 
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This site isn't about getting laid.

Learning how to filter through crap is a good skill to master though. Read the good stuff and stop getting pissed off about the bad stuff.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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