"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why SS rocks - answer to the newbies

Nicholas

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I FEEL the need to compare the chump from few months ago with this guy, the new me. Last three days were crucial. I don't know what happened, but I finally left 'the matrix'. It doesn't mean I got laid unfortunately. But what I have accomplished is much greater...I found myself.

Confidence and self-esteem have never been greater than now. Talking to chicks, random girls has never been easier. I assure them I'm interested in their sh1t, ask all the crap I don't even care about. Keeping a clear mind, minding all the details, being cool and cold, mysterious and most importantly not nervous at all. I finally got it.

How did I get this knowledge without any concrete results? By lurking here reading all the threads you guys create. DJ bible, yes it's a begining, but all the opinions you posted got filtered and incorporated into my personality. This is how unexperienced guy like me can jump into the field and never seem unexperienced. This takes time, but every second invested WILL pay off trust me on this.

The women presence in my life has grown exponentially. A year ago I would actually AVOID talking to a woman, now I'm looking for a chance constantly.
'I don't give a sh1t' attitude is awesome. I'm hitting a gym and going the right way, and all the stupid obstacles that come in life appear and go away...As long as you are on the right track they don't matter.

Yet it's obvious I have so much more to learn. And more important get experience asap. The only thing stopping me, the only thing making me doubt in myself is a lack off experience. It is now the ultimate boss I have to fight on this level. (For example: I was clubbing this night, and a HB9 was comming on to me. Fvcking unbelievable, she was stepping on my foot, rubbing his butt on me and saying 'sorry :)'. I was standing like a boss with my drink and a cigg thinking to myself how ridiculous the situation is. I was laughing inside. If I had experience and a car or a place of my own that would be a deffinite touch down. But I don't regret it, there will be much more opportunities and I WILL be keen to use them soon enough.)

Everytime I see shmucks around me doing 'the business' I thank SS for finding me.

My ultimate advice for now would be - Improve your chances by improving your looks, improving your game... and DO SH!T YOUR WAY! And be patient.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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