"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why SS rocks - answer to the newbies

Nicholas

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I FEEL the need to compare the chump from few months ago with this guy, the new me. Last three days were crucial. I don't know what happened, but I finally left 'the matrix'. It doesn't mean I got laid unfortunately. But what I have accomplished is much greater...I found myself.

Confidence and self-esteem have never been greater than now. Talking to chicks, random girls has never been easier. I assure them I'm interested in their sh1t, ask all the crap I don't even care about. Keeping a clear mind, minding all the details, being cool and cold, mysterious and most importantly not nervous at all. I finally got it.

How did I get this knowledge without any concrete results? By lurking here reading all the threads you guys create. DJ bible, yes it's a begining, but all the opinions you posted got filtered and incorporated into my personality. This is how unexperienced guy like me can jump into the field and never seem unexperienced. This takes time, but every second invested WILL pay off trust me on this.

The women presence in my life has grown exponentially. A year ago I would actually AVOID talking to a woman, now I'm looking for a chance constantly.
'I don't give a sh1t' attitude is awesome. I'm hitting a gym and going the right way, and all the stupid obstacles that come in life appear and go away...As long as you are on the right track they don't matter.

Yet it's obvious I have so much more to learn. And more important get experience asap. The only thing stopping me, the only thing making me doubt in myself is a lack off experience. It is now the ultimate boss I have to fight on this level. (For example: I was clubbing this night, and a HB9 was comming on to me. Fvcking unbelievable, she was stepping on my foot, rubbing his butt on me and saying 'sorry :)'. I was standing like a boss with my drink and a cigg thinking to myself how ridiculous the situation is. I was laughing inside. If I had experience and a car or a place of my own that would be a deffinite touch down. But I don't regret it, there will be much more opportunities and I WILL be keen to use them soon enough.)

Everytime I see shmucks around me doing 'the business' I thank SS for finding me.

My ultimate advice for now would be - Improve your chances by improving your looks, improving your game... and DO SH!T YOUR WAY! And be patient.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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