Why some Senior/Master DJs post AFC questions...

[silverwex]

Why some Senior/Master DJs post AFC questions...

I've been kinda sick for the past two days and have been doing some thinking in between getting sick in the toilet.

Ive realised that sometimes we see so-called Senior and, even, Master DJs posting some horribly AFC questions.

Ive come up with the reason why!

The majority of people HAVE to get their thoughts given the thumbs-up by their peers/friends/family etc before they can go on to do something important/life changing. Even though they may know, deep down, that: 1)the choice they have made is right or 2)how that that girl really DOES like them - they still need clarification from others to go through with their choice/asking the girl out.

I might not be making myself totally clear on this but I know what im talking about.

For instance, you may see a Master Don Juan with 23,456 posts to his name asking:

'This girl keeps giving me looks and eyeing me up and smiling at me! Does she like me?!'

OR

'I really wanna move to a big city to give me more options in life. Should I go?'

Deep down, this Master DJ KNOWS that he SHOULD ask the girl out and he SHOULD move to the city but he needs the rest of us to CONFIRM his choice, but, its such a big move (maybe not so in the girl scenario as thats just AFC! ) that hes taking the situation very seriously and needs others to solidify his thoughts before he can act upon them.

Mabye this sounds AFC and totally unALPHA like to you but I think deep-down AFC's AND DJ's alike need other people to back them up and tell them that: 'Your idea is right' or 'Yes that is what you should do!' before they carry out their actions...

The only difference is: an AFC won't do something if hes told its a bad idea yet he has his mind set on it while a DJ/Alpha Male WILL do it if its what he wants.

Ive been there before asking 'Theres this girl... heres all the signs shes giving me... does she like me?'... Have/Are you?

Just a thought.

Opinions...?

 

[MetalFortress]

A postcount doesn't make a person a DJ. All you have to do to be a Senior DJ is get 200 posts (I think) and 500 posts for Master DJ.

 

[Julian]

Post count doesnt equal pimpishness. Take me for example LOL.


Anyway, its always good to ask for 2nd opinions, regardless if your a DJ or pure AFC.

 

[silverwex]

Yeah its 200 posts for senior and 500 for master.

Which is kinda silly. There should be some sort of test to determine whether youre a senior or master DJ... or just an AFC!

I know of a few 'master' djs that should really be in the AFC categories...

 

[Speed Demond]

Right on the Money!

I totaly think that these Guys have to TRY THING OUT FOR THEMSELVES!!!!!

Like for real...your never gonna be confident in yourself if you always have to ask to make sure it's ok...just try it out..if it doesn't work..try something out.

I'v made a coupe posts commenting on this. like for real i realized this in the matter of a couple months..and I was As AFC as you could be!

Just have fun with things and try not to worry about what's going to happen or what ppl think..cuz it's not the end of the world...and if your afraid it's your last chance cuz you might just die tomorow..well if you dead tomorow you don't gotta worry about it !! LOL


Just have Fun with life

 

[Helter Skelter]

If you have posted over 600 times in the last month and half, you should be called MASTER OF NO LIFE DJ. Sorry, I'm not gonna name who that is.

 

[silverwex]

Helter Skelter:

I think i know who you're talking about, but why does everyone have something against... him?

 

[MikeYikes122]

Yeah no sh!t I agree with you one hundred percent. Some of the biggest losers post on here. I think some of these guys with like 1000 posts in a month or two are just guys who can't get sh!t done with girls themselves, and they just get off and feed their own egos by going to sosuave.com to tell little Johnny So and So how big of a AFC he is because he is scared to ask out the girl who sits in front of him in Pre-Calc.

My favorite thing is when some 18 year old booger picker comes on here and tells me or someone else who is significantly older or more mature what to do. I had a serious question once. A real real serious question pertaining to a medical condition, and some little sh!t with 600 posts and an undeveloped scrodum came on here and tried to tell me what to do. Man I almost went postal.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Never ever think that being older makes you wiser, more knowledgable or have more experience. That is the worst issue elders have.... Senioritycomplexes, thinking that means ****.

 

[MikeYikes122]

Ok thanks Dad. I think I'm going to put that in my buddy info and in my signature too.

The growing up you'll have to do in those final teen years and early 20's is crazy. It's pretty funny that I just wrote my post condemning 18-21 year olds who try to give advice to people older than them, and you just did that right back to me.

But you'll probably just respond, and tell me about how old you are, so me even responding to this is pretty fruitless.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

My age is irrelevant, my knowledge isn't. Those are not correlated.

 

[MikeYikes122]

I dont know why I'm wasting my time here trying to explain this to you and on a Friday night at that, but I'm pretty sure I'm in for the night anyway.

Is it possible you could mature pretty fast? Yeah I guess, but knowledge isn't the question here bud. I guess it's wisdom. Look, I don't know how old you actually are but the game in high school is completely different from the game in college, and the game in your earlier years of college is completely different from the game in your later years of college, and I'm just going to assume that it carries on after that in the same pattern. I wouldn't try to give a 35 year old dating advice. I want you to imagine a guy in his mid twenties giving a man in his middle ages advice about women. That's pretty fvckin ridiculous. I wish that I could somehow explain the life experiences that you've yet to have, but I really can't. You just have to experience them. Just know your role I guess.

And if you want to respond and try to use your big words and formal writing to try to sound "knowledgeable" in correlation with my age or whatever, realize that you misused a comma in your last post where you should of had a period, semi colon, or a linking verb. I don't mean to be a pointdexter - just a smart a$$ I guess.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

I've already taken psychology at university and also started on a bachelor in another course.... I'm not in highschool. I don't see a point in belitteling language/writing since that is also highly irrelevant, especially since english is not my primary language.

The midtwenties giving advice to someone 35 is NOT ridiculous, not if that midtwenty person has something relevant to say. The problem is that older people always assume they are wiser than those that are younger, that is not a given truth or fact.

 

[MikeYikes122]

Ok yeah you're right. I completely see your point. Not only did you respond like I said you would, but you also didn't back anything you said up. If you disagree then obviously you didn't talk to girls at the ages I described. Fvck, I will even make you look like a bigger moron here.

So in high school it seems kinda like girls wanted popularity from guys not so much good looks and personality. The more mature ones that always dated the twenty two year olds were pretty much the only acception (they matured early). And for some reason there was this widely held notion that a fooling around relationship meant BF-GF to girls. At least at my high school. I don't know - I'm no expert here as I didn't really date a whole lot in high school.

This notion of fooling around connotating relationship carried over to college. This is the reason why girls go crazy and fool around and put out for guys like crazy in their freshmen year.

After that, sometime around mid-sophomore year usually, and sometimes as early as halfway through freshmen year, they seem to hit like a depressive stage. "I'm never going to find a decent guy. I just want a nice guy who is cute. I'm sick of frat meat ****s who try to take advantage of me. Yada Yada Yada." I've played into this role pretty well. Yeah that's right, you heard me, I'm nice. And as you can see I get a little arrogant too.

After this I really don't know. I hope there is a change for the sake of girls because I could easily see depression setting in for a lot of them if they keep this mind frame.

So hopefully this ends this message board pi$$ing contest. I can't believe you're trying to tell me that an 18 year old who still thinks that girls like the cool guys can give me advice about how to handle girls. I'm not saying that this is impossible. It's just highly implausible for a kid who is 18 to even be able to communicate with me about girls. Hell my friend's little brother who is 17 asks me sh!t about girls all the time, and I have no answers for him because the girls I talk to are completely different.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Why would I not answer as you predicted since answering like I did was the best, most straighforward way todo it.

 

[MikeYikes122]

I dont know I feel like I've argued my case pretty well here. You've just said the exact opposite of what I said everytime. I think you might as well just say "I'm right because I said so...."

 

[Lionheart]

A slightly more reliable method is to check someone's registered data instead, if they've been here for freaking years - then chances are they've soaked up all the DJ knowledge.

That does not neccesarily mean that they are a real pimp in real life though

 

[Atratus]

People people, let's stop ragging on the post-happy and the young.

The first reply post steered this thread completely off-topic.

So a post-count might say nothing about how DJ he is. Maybe it even says how UNLIKELY it would be for him to be DJ. We got that. Thanks.

As for young men giving older men advice, or let's say less experienced to more experienced people, i don't see anything ridiculous about that. Sure it's ridiculous fresh 17 yr old afc gives his 'advice' to pook and blow his horn about the gf he's had for 4 months already. But that doesn't mean pook will not benefit from the 'advice'. Such is the wisdom of pook.

Though the young kid talks in all seriousness, if deluded, anyone on the forum would be hard pressed to call it GOOD advice, no matter if he's fills in 40 for his age and posts a thousand posts just to get MDJ status.

And as for what the thread originally was about, i completely feel you when you say:

Deep down, this Master DJ KNOWS that he SHOULD ask the girl out and he SHOULD move to the city but he needs the rest of us to CONFIRM his choice, but, its such a big move (maybe not so in the girl scenario as thats just AFC! ) that hes taking the situation very seriously and needs others to solidify his thoughts before he can act upon them.

Oh the millions upon millions of times i've been tempted to ask my martial arts teacher a question, knowing that i know the answer already, and quickly realizing that i just want assurance that i'm a bright little kid who doesn't come up with strange ideas but real martial arts knowledge of a wellspring of true wisdom. Sure...

That's the thing: these kind of questions, they're stupid afc questions, but no matter how much i train, i can still ask them --- SO LONG AS I DON'T BOTHER TO TRY IT OUT!!! (hey... that reminds me: good post, uh.... (checks) Speed Demond !)

So why do we ask?
I will show you the difference:

AFC1: Is it okay to ask her out on a date in this situation1?
Forum: SURE! Go for it.
She: ewww NO!
AFC1: It's not okay 'cause she say no in this situation, and i want yes. Got it. But damn girl, you could be more polite.

AFC2: Is it okay to ask her out in situation2?
His mind: NO! Oh i can't stop myself anyway.
She: ewww NO!
AFC2: BOOHOOHOO

DJ 1: Is it okay to ask her out in situation3?
Forum: SURE! Go for it.
She: ewww NO!
DJ 1: Yeah well, i knew that could happen. Tough luck. NEXT!

DJ 2: Is it okay to ask her out in situation4?
His mind: NO! But you can try and see what happens.
She: ewww NO!
DJ 2: Yeah, ok. I knew you could say that. You could be a bit more polite though. Ewww?
She/his mind: Yeah, it's just cuz you're so ...

It's like you said silverwex said it right here:

The only difference is: an AFC won't do something if hes told its a bad idea yet he has his mind set on it while a DJ/Alpha Male WILL do it if its what he wants.

Man silverwex, if you ask me, that was one good, honest post of yours.