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Why Some Men Almost Always Get Laid (and Others Don’t)

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Exactly, I always knew there was something missing with dating apps:
You're looking at a damn screen!
Good luck f*cking a screen!
And the same with women, do you think they get wet looking at your goofy a$$ smiling from a picture on a screen?? Hell no!
I think the do get wet reading the words you type on that screen.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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7. The emit a sensual and sexual vibe that's non-needy
 

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Why Some Men Almost Always Get Laid (and Others Don’t)

Article is trash. I can tell you this in less words.
  • The men that get laid are the ones who are either exceptionally attractive to most women, has something that women want, or the ones who dgaf about standards [they'll f*ck fat and ugly women and then **** a hot and skinny woman the next day].
  • MUST have high testosterone. Must be physically active. A man who wants sex is going to get laid one way or another, and being physically active makes your biology go crazy to put it into a woman. Sometimes any woman you can get.
  • The men that do not get laid are the ones fooled by feminism or "chivalry." Your typical white collar worker, your male feminist, your typical politician, the nerd, the fat guy who won't go to the gym, list goes on.
 

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Why Some Men Almost Always Get Laid (and Others Don’t)

Article is trash. I can tell you this in less words.
  • The men that get laid are the ones who are either exceptionally attractive to most women, has something that women want, or the ones who dgaf about standards [they'll f*ck fat and ugly women and then **** a hot and skinny woman the next day].
  • MUST have high testosterone. Must be physically active. A man who wants sex is going to get laid one way or another, and being physically active makes your biology go crazy to put it into a woman. Sometimes any woman you can get.
  • The men that do not get laid are the ones fooled by feminism or "chivalry." Your typical white collar worker, your male feminist, your typical politician, the nerd, the fat guy who won't go to the gym, list goes on.
that’s a pretty good summary of the real world. Great job.
Regards #2 and high T - absolutely yes.
Any guy I’ve met IRL who I considered a player were either high Looks + high T or shorter guys + high T ( very bold/ dominant behaviours)

So if a dude doesn’t have height/ looks best to work on #2 however he can. That’s what really drives bolder behaviour to get laid as you stated. and what those women banged by the shorter guys responded to as far as I could see.

Most pickup advice goes to “think or act this way to get laid” - but that behaviour is the result of/ naturally driven by high T. That’s the source.

I read in some evo-psych book ( I think ) the following
‘ females of any species will not mate with non-aggressive males’ .

I kept that in mind for pickup in bars and clubs and just in general wherever . And ‘aggressive’ meaning socially aggressive, cheeky, challenging, being dominant, leading, etc etc.
 
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that’s a pretty good summary of the real world. Great job.
Regards #2 and high T - absolutely yes.
Any guy I’ve met IRL who I considered a player were either high Looks + high T or shorter guys + high T ( very bold/ dominant behaviours)

So if a dude doesn’t have height/ looks best to work on #2 however he can. That’s what really drives bolder behaviour to get laid as you stated. and what those women banged by the shorter guys responded to as far as I could see.

Most pickup advice goes to “think or act this way to get laid” - but that behaviour is the result of/ naturally driven by high T. That’s the source.

I read in some evo-psych book ( I think ) the following
‘ females of any species will not mate with non-aggressive males’ .

I kept that in mind for pickup in bars and clubs and just in general wherever . And ‘aggressive’ meaning socially aggressive, cheeky, challenging, being dominant, leading, etc etc.
I want to bounce something off you.

‘ females of any species will not mate with non-aggressive males’ .

So in bars and clubs, why do you think women walk away or reject guys who approach them contrary to this rule? Not knocking you, I just want to pick your brain. Then I'll tell my answer.
 

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I want to bounce something off you.

‘ females of any species will not mate with non-aggressive males’ .

So in bars and clubs, why do you think women walk away or reject guys who approach them contrary to this rule? Not knocking you, I just want to pick your brain. Then I'll tell my answer.
Well…

That statement above is not universally true. I’m sure there’s guys that are tall and incredibly handsome that can approach and pickup contrary to this rule. Or guys with status , or other unique things.

But I found that statement generally true. It helped steer me in the right direction for quick pulls and same night lays. It opened up a lot of new situations and results. I saw it in what other guys were doing IRL also.

To me, bars and clubs can heightened environments and having a dominant energy helped me a lot to make the right impression. I’d translate ‘aggressive’ to having dominant energy.
Showing big balls in the approach.
 
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I don’t believe generalisation without true statistics anymore. Part of my ego would want to believe that “hey I’m on of those desirable me who’s smashed hundreds of women” but what’s to tell me anyone who puts in equivalent energy would do too.

Honestly I’d be much better if financially emotionally and mentally if I hadn’t.

But the part of me who likes looking back in hindsight and say fyeah been there done that disagrees.
 
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