Why so lazy...

[Pakwah]

My friend was going out with a girl, whom he used to live with and this chic (no stereotypes here) does absolutely no housework. There is mold in bowls on her stove, toilet paper rolls piling up in the bathroom, not one clean dish in the sink, slurpee cups, dirty diapers sitting on the bathroom floor, cigarette boxes and wrappers on the floor, empty boxes in the cupboard, french vanilla cups that start to stink (the milk), clothes all over the floor, flyers on the floor, im not kidding, its goes on and on. He does not remember the last time she vacuumed. If he comes by twice in two days and vacuums, she will tell him he is obsessive. He does some of it, but is getting tired of it. He does some cleaning when he comes by, did i mention she has a kid there, not his. That's why he cleans, so the kids has a floor to play on.
He is concerned about this kid being kept in the house, apparently all she does is go on MySpace all day.
What are his options, if any?
I want to know what causes a person to become so f---kin lazy?

 

[insanity]

i tend to look towards - does this girl have a father? it seemed some of my exs who had a deadbeat dad, displayed lack of effort towards a clean househould and hygiene. this was all through observation. i think in a womans head it has to do with male dominance. if he does the all the cleaning and says nothing to her. he will be taking advantaged of. even my best friend who has a hard job comes home to do the cooking, because his girlfriend looked after the kids all day and she deserves a rest or so he says. then on fridays when he gets off work. he lets her go to the clubs and have fun with her friends while he stays home and looks after their children. kids are not that tough to look after.

he should pack his bags and run for the hills while he still can. i remember when i noticed my ex not cleaning or contributing to anything. i looked the other way and i did the cleaning. did i get laid for my effort.....nope. so one day i gave her some cash and told her to go out and have fun with her friends. then i packed my stuff and left. funny thing is, i didn't receive a phone call when i left. the only time she called was a few days later after i disconneted the phone and cable. the nerve of some women. she expected that i should have left that stuff on.

the girl im with now is awesome. i can't ever imagine getting together with a swamp donkey like that again.

 

[Pakwah]

are u sure you didn't dump that one over on my friend.....lol
something else that amazes me.
all those women that are 1-*****es yet 2-they want a man to rescue them
then they listen to those love songs about guys missing girls, man breaks up with girl - hell that hinder song is a perfect example - lips of an angel
and yet, when they are with someone, they treat them like crap, and they wish a man would cry over them.