Why shouldn't you have a relationship with party girl

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Glassguy

Moderator

Mar 15, 2018

Trying to date a party girl who isn't going to abandon the bar scene anytime soon is like trying to play baseball with a golf club. Frustrating and super low odds at best. If there's no trust from the start, there is no trust.

It's funny because I went out with friends a few months ago and it was the same chicks that were hitting the bars 20 yrs ago. Boy did they look rough too......That lifestyle will age a person fast.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.