Why shouldn't you have a relationship with party girl

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Glassguy

Moderator

Mar 15, 2018

Trying to date a party girl who isn't going to abandon the bar scene anytime soon is like trying to play baseball with a golf club. Frustrating and super low odds at best. If there's no trust from the start, there is no trust.

It's funny because I went out with friends a few months ago and it was the same chicks that were hitting the bars 20 yrs ago. Boy did they look rough too......That lifestyle will age a person fast.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.