Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why she rejected and ignores me ?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JEFE

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Whit all dued respect

your mistake is that you are to mucho of a *****YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!

MAN, stop whining for this girl if she doesn`t like you or love you as you love her what have she that is so important that other women doesn´t have???????

man never be a friend of a girl you are sexually atracted.

this situation is not her fault, its yours because you don`t comunicate what did you want from the begining.

If you were her friend and she sees you as her friend its almost imposible that she become atracted to you because she sees you as a Brother

tell me, would you **** your sister????????????????????????

Stop whining, stop calling her, be a man and work on your self.

women have not to be your life, just something pretty to be in your life

READ THE FUKCYNG BIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BE A MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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PD:
You have WOLVERINE in your username for cristsake, are you behaving as WOLVERINE????????????????????
 

Kailex

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Alright, let's at least give the noobie the benefit of the doubt.

You're new to the forum and you obviously have some issues with yourself as far as regarding a woman and holding her to higher esteem than yourself.

You definitely need to read the DJ Bible and many of the threads in the Archive section.

First of all, forget this girl. You don't love her... trust me. You THINK you love her but you are just so used to being around HER and just HER that you think that she's the only one for you.

Move on. She's made it perfectly clear that she doesn't want you to be involved with her. Hell, stop talking to her.

I'd say to go meet other women, but right now you need to gain some perspective, self-respect and self-confidence. If you try to meet other women right now, all you are going to do is transition your oneitis from one girl to another.

DON'T ever tell a woman again that you love her (not first at least), specially that you love her more than you love yourself.

Everything up until now was pretty much your mistake. And you have hope, you just don't have any with this girl. You've successfully managed to scare her out of your life and rightfully so.

Imagine you had a best friend who did all of that to you and you had ZERO interest in you, wouldn't that freak you out?

Welcome to the boards, I do hope you read around. It's a rainy Saturday, so you definitely can catch up on some reading materials here at SoSuave.
 

starplayer

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K well if this is a troll post, fvck off.

Assuming it's not, there's several things you need to do.

1. Accept you will NEVER be with her. NEVER EVER.

2. You also cannot be her "friend". This is because you think you're in love with her. The more you hang around her, the more it will hurt you. It also doesn't sound like she really wants much to do with you. Walk away from her and don't look back. You need to get over her which means No Contact.

3. Like the guys above said - read the DJ Bible. You need to work on yourself because right now you sound like a mess. Sort your fvcking life out son.

Good luck!

(BTW, don't know why you put this in the Tips forum)
 

WaRpEd

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arunwolverine, their is a link at the bottom of the page that reads "The Dj Bible"

Please give it a review.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GetOveIT

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JEFE said:
You have WOLVERINE in your username for cristsake, are you behaving as WOLVERINE????????????????????
:crackup:
 
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