"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why Read?

spesmilitis

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Random thoughts on why one should read:

To learn about the thoughts and emotions of intelligent people. This will expand your own thought process.

To learn from the mistakes and successes of others. You will make better decisions when you run into similar situations.

To obtain knowledge.

When you analyze characters, you learn psychology.

When you can you better analyze situations in literature/history, you can better analyze situations in real life.

When you read you are exposed to tools of writing and general communication. This will increase your own ability to communicate. For example: if I read more in highschool maybe I would be able to put together a coherent paragraph and not just a buncha random thoughts.

And a buncha other reasons. . .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Falcon

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I once knew some people who said things along the lines of "The last time I've ever read a book was in 6th grade", and then would laugh after they said that like they were bragging. It was seriously one of the most disappointing things I've ever heard in my life.

You have so much potential in your mind and to not use it would be a huge tragedy. You have one life so why not be the best you can be?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Falcon said:
I once knew some people who said things along the lines of "The last time I've ever read a book was in 6th grade", and then would laugh after they said that like they were bragging. It was seriously one of the most disappointing things I've ever heard in my life.
you mean like all the kids on myspace under the "books" category?

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ElStud said:
Wow, talk about a jerk, they try to help you and you lash out at them?
you're such a useless kid. i should post your quote in every thread you make. it fits.
 

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Why should we read?

Hmm...

Its gotta be better than jerkin it for the 5th time in a row within an hour. Some people seriously have so much time on their hands, they'd be hard pressed to find a reason why they SHOULDN'T read, except for maybe illiteracy. And even then, they'd have to think of a reason to NOT learn how to read.
 
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