"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why Read?

spesmilitis

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Random thoughts on why one should read:

To learn about the thoughts and emotions of intelligent people. This will expand your own thought process.

To learn from the mistakes and successes of others. You will make better decisions when you run into similar situations.

To obtain knowledge.

When you analyze characters, you learn psychology.

When you can you better analyze situations in literature/history, you can better analyze situations in real life.

When you read you are exposed to tools of writing and general communication. This will increase your own ability to communicate. For example: if I read more in highschool maybe I would be able to put together a coherent paragraph and not just a buncha random thoughts.

And a buncha other reasons. . .
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Falcon

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I once knew some people who said things along the lines of "The last time I've ever read a book was in 6th grade", and then would laugh after they said that like they were bragging. It was seriously one of the most disappointing things I've ever heard in my life.

You have so much potential in your mind and to not use it would be a huge tragedy. You have one life so why not be the best you can be?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Falcon said:
I once knew some people who said things along the lines of "The last time I've ever read a book was in 6th grade", and then would laugh after they said that like they were bragging. It was seriously one of the most disappointing things I've ever heard in my life.
you mean like all the kids on myspace under the "books" category?

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ElStud said:
Wow, talk about a jerk, they try to help you and you lash out at them?
you're such a useless kid. i should post your quote in every thread you make. it fits.
 

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Why should we read?

Hmm...

Its gotta be better than jerkin it for the 5th time in a row within an hour. Some people seriously have so much time on their hands, they'd be hard pressed to find a reason why they SHOULDN'T read, except for maybe illiteracy. And even then, they'd have to think of a reason to NOT learn how to read.
 
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