"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr. Mystery II

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There was a point in time when I posted the majority of my posts here in the suggestions forum.

But....

I wasn't suggesting anything, I would shoot down any suggestion people had and remind them not to take this website so damn seriously. I really don't get it. What is the problem with this place? There is nothing wrong with it, your looking for too much, its just a forum for guys to talk to each other about how to pick up girls. Thats all it is and thats all it should be!

You really should have better things to do than to worry about how some website is running. And 99.9999% of the suggestions are rediculous. Who cares about any of this stuff?

The only thing that really should be here is questions about posts being moved or deleted by mods, or public reports of someone being disrespectful.

We have enough forums already.
We don't need special titles, and we can easily ignore the one we already have.
Yada, yada yada...

The site is perfect the way it is.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SexPDX

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Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
There was a point in time when I posted the majority of my posts here in the suggestions forum.
I am getting close to that point nowadays, LOL!

Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
I wasn't suggesting anything, I would shoot down any suggestion people had and remind them not to take this website so damn seriously.
That's a valid use of the suggestions and feedback forum, both those who were posting and you responding to the suggestions.


Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
I really don't get it. What is the problem with this place? There is nothing wrong with it, your looking for too much, its just a forum for guys to talk to each other about how to pick up girls. Thats all it is and thats all it should be!
I agree with you, but is it not a good thing that the owner of the site is willing to listen to us? Should he not encourage members to speak freely about what we feel should and should not go on here? I am glad he does.


You really should have better things to do than to worry about how some website is running. And 99.9999% of the suggestions are rediculous. Who cares about any of this stuff?


Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
The only thing that really should be here is questions about posts being moved or deleted by mods, or public reports of someone being disrespectful.
I agree with you about most of the suggestions being ridiculous, but nobody set either you or me up as the grand-poobah of what "should be" in here or any other forum for that matter.

The reason I post in here now is I suspect not unlike the reason you did at one time more than you do now. I have at this point already gotten probably 99% of the benefit I will ever get from this forum. My thoughts on the topics are more or less fully formed. I have already articulated pretty much everything I have to say on the topics in the past, so I have limitted motivation to discuss what I have already articulated over and over again. I do, however, like to check up on the place and post on-topic stuff SOMETIMES. But my motivation to post in suggestions and feedback stems from my desire for this forum to be as enriching for others as it was for me at one time. My comments here articulate what I believe will perserve those qualities.

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Re: Re: Why post suggestions...

Originally posted by SexPDX
but nobody set either you or me up as the grand-poobah of what "should be" in here or any other forum for that matter.
My point exactly.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: Re: Why post suggestions...

Originally posted by Mr. Mystery II
My point exactly.
No, it's not the same thing.

In here when people post about what they think should be happening, it's in the context of making a suggestion, which is the intended purpose of this forum. When you are making statements about what suggestions are or are not appropriate in the suggestions and feedback forum, that's entirely different.

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