Guys, firstly pictures. Imagine this, to take a photo you must first learn how to pose, in essence you must take time and become an amateur in photography and modeling expert - nothing crazy, couple of days of research and couple of weeks of practise. Then you have to realize, your OLD profile is just as attractive as your ugliest photo, so use that photoshop to alterter your photos - fear not, all hollywood celebs on instagram do it.
Then, you have to be good at messaging. Write a perfect opening message, and know how to structure conversation and when to close. Plus you actually have to talk on the phone, I think it is a must if you want to minimize flakes. Flake is low IL, and the idea is not a date itself, or even fclose, idea is to raise IL.... start with as high IL as possible, that is our perfect pictures and perfect opening messages, and then raise IL over messaging and then over the phone, and on date as well before things could happen.
Then there is site algorithm itself. Like it or not, to get anywhere interesting you have to pay the service to show you to your matches and to get interesting matches.
Online, just like in real life, approach without IOI is cold. IOI online is chicks that look at your profile and chicks that match with you and chicks that like your photos.
Extra, how to message:
Extra, how to write a perfect bio section:
P.S. Just a tip - chicks are borring, and IL is not always her positively replying to you with naked pics, that is rare. Mediocre IL is often her replying quickly, that is sort of like compilance. That means she's reading you and actually replying, and it is rare for online chicks to reply to guys. That means you are not boring and she likes you.
Then, you have to be good at messaging. Write a perfect opening message, and know how to structure conversation and when to close. Plus you actually have to talk on the phone, I think it is a must if you want to minimize flakes. Flake is low IL, and the idea is not a date itself, or even fclose, idea is to raise IL.... start with as high IL as possible, that is our perfect pictures and perfect opening messages, and then raise IL over messaging and then over the phone, and on date as well before things could happen.
Then there is site algorithm itself. Like it or not, to get anywhere interesting you have to pay the service to show you to your matches and to get interesting matches.
Online, just like in real life, approach without IOI is cold. IOI online is chicks that look at your profile and chicks that match with you and chicks that like your photos.
Extra, how to message:
Extra, how to write a perfect bio section:
P.S. Just a tip - chicks are borring, and IL is not always her positively replying to you with naked pics, that is rare. Mediocre IL is often her replying quickly, that is sort of like compilance. That means she's reading you and actually replying, and it is rare for online chicks to reply to guys. That means you are not boring and she likes you.
