"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why obsessing over looks is pointless and stupid

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1) Dry Spell goggles
You have your dry spell pvssy goggles on, most of the men are within 2 points looks rating wise from the female. When you see this girl out in public, you see her with makeup and dressed up to look attractive to other men so she's going to look hotter than what she actually is. Add dry spell goggles to the equation and it's over lol. Instead of whining about looks, use the 2 point rule to your advantage and aim for a girl within 2 points of your grasp.

Here is a good example of the dry spell pvssy goggles syndrome.


I think it is clearly debatable who is higher in the looks scale between paris and her husband, but the husband isn't an ugly dude at all. There is really no discrepancy between these two, so that's that. I think guys have a negative bias towards any guy that doesn't look super masculine, so we automatically rate them lower than what they should be.

2) Why would you be envious of a transactional relationship?

So lets say the guy is clearly dating above his league, but he is also paying the price for this relationship. He could be a step dad to Tyrone's kids out of wedlock, he could be paying for this girl's life, she's cheating on him and he lets her get away with it, he could be tolerating a bunch of mental/drug nonsense from this girl that most guys wouldn't put up with, and etc. At the end of the day, he's paying the price to be with this girl, so would you rather date a girl mutually and not have to sell your soul?
 

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