"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why Number Closing and being a "Challenge" 90% of the Time is Completely Pointless

Alex DeLarge

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Good post. I actually did this sh1t before and it worked. I met this girl at a bar for the first time and could tell she was really into me. I said "let's go for a walk" grabbed her arm (playfully) and we went exploring and under some nearby train bridge.

She said to me "You're not gonna rape me are you?" Kind of playfully, but I knew she wanted it.

I just pulled her in and started making out with her without saying a word.. Started feeling up her tits and eventually started fingering her. At this point she started touching my d1ck and eventually got on her knees and started sucking.

You gotta be careful with this approach though. If there are people around and you do this to a ch1ck.. There will most likely be some white knight friendzoned d0uche that tries to keep you from doing this.. Or he'll say to the girl "___ come back here, are you okay? come on let's go home".

You can easily wind up getting your ass kicked or the girl running away saying you did something horrible to her even though she loved it (her conscience just tells her she didn't).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aaron B

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well personally I like the threadstarter's style of being aggressive and sexual with her right off the bat and continuing to push for sex

let's be honest, most guys don't have the balls to try it

and that's one of the main reasons it works i suppose

i totally believe that its possible to meet a girl and make out with her within the first few minutes

in fact i have a friend that used to do it regularly at bars and clubs and i was better overall with women but i was always amazed that he could do that and i wasn't able to
 
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