"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why not..?

arcilitei34

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Well to sum it up in a nutshell.
Made out with my gf today, hot and heavy, rubbed her breasts, rubbed her *****. She gave me a Handjob, and gave me some head, however, she wouldn't let me eat her out afterwards. Why not?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vincent

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What the hell's wrong with you, why'd you "want" to eat her out?
 

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Lots of guys like eating their girl out. I do. Whats wrong with doin sumthin to give your girl pleasure?
 

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lol...Ghostin and Arcilitei34 you all are funny...you two must think you're actors in a porno flick...
 

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Eating a girl out sucks... it's like going to work, sure, some guys love going to work, but those guys are either the losers or actors.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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penkitten

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Originally posted by arcilitei34
Well to sum it up in a nutshell.
Made out with my gf today, hot and heavy, rubbed her breasts, rubbed her *****. She gave me a Handjob, and gave me some head, however, she wouldn't let me eat her out afterwards. Why not?
how old is she?
maybe she is uncomfortable with her body if she is young.
it might intimidate her.
 

WesCottII

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The only thing i can suggest is asking her. Otherwise I have no idea why she won't let you eat her out.
 

quest

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Originally posted by ghostin
Lots of guys like eating their girl out. I do. Whats wrong with doin sumthin to give your girl pleasure?
its easy to pick out who here has actually been laid.
you, clearly have.

i was really against eating a out a girl, "why would you want to?", before i started being intimate with girls. i enjoy it.
i enjoy making a girl scream, and there is no better way.


arcilitei34 - if u normally eat her out, and this time she wouldn't let you, maybe she had thrush or something? if u don't normally eat her out, as penkitten said, maybe she's uncomfortable.

if thats the case, just tell her that you want to do it to her because you'll both enjoy it, take it slowly. and she'll let you do it forever after.
 

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I would be pissed if my girl didnt go down on me, and i would be a hypocrite if i didnt go down on her.

Granted, if ur girl is hairy and dirty as **** down there then dont go down on her.
 
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