"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why not to read the bible

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Well guys, you must be thinking "I am getting one, i am improving myself and reading the DJ bible..." but the truth is, that the DJ bible won't get you anything other than a direction for the mind-set.

As pook says "Who wrote the DJ bible?" guys like me and you, which got to the field and had a succes (or claim to have one) and write a post. If the board likes the post than it's in.

There are much better E-books, "Double Your Dating" is a great one, DeAngelo is the "Father" of C+F. You can look at posts by the "Juggler" and read mystery's "Venusnian Arts Handbook" (+++).

Go and buy some good books about magic, cold reading and preforming.
start improving your game and write your own routines like this:

Approach: (open and ask for opinion)
They answer: bla bla
You preform (DHV): magic, cold reading.
They give you IOI's (Asking for your name, keeping the conversation and etc').
you get the # and talk for a bit and eject.
(this is from the mystery method).



I, like AD only deal with intrested chicks but you need to rember:
You have to make sure you are diffrent and turn those switches that make girl's attracted to you. Being the AMOG is a switch, Soical-Intelignce is an switch, looking good is a switch and etc'.

AD doesn't need to learn how to turn on those switches, pook doesn't need also because it comes to the natural. But you, after some failuers can learn how to finally get women attracted to you.

But make sure, "May the venusinian arts enrich your life, not define it"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You do realize every single one of those people you mentioned, started out at the bottom of the barrel just like the rest of us?

There are MANY routes to the top, the DJ Bible (which IMHO, is way outdated), is one of them. Mindset leads to positive energies towards a goal. You want to do something you're telling yourself to do. Duh.
 

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Docs said:
You do realize every single one of those people you mentioned, started out at the bottom of the barrel just like the rest of us?

There are MANY routes to the top, the DJ Bible (which IMHO, is way outdated), is one of them. Mindset leads to positive energies towards a goal. You want to do something you're telling yourself to do. Duh.
You have a point there, but the dj bible alone will get you no where.
 

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Infraction said:
You have a point there, but the dj bible alone will get you no where.
While it's massively outdated, it's still a good springboard.

It all depends on your goals, though. If all you want is a way to get laid, read what the PUAs write. Otherwise, read the books recommended in the DJB. (48laws of power, How to win friends and influence others, etc)
 
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