"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why not do both?

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There seems to be two warring factions on this board. Those who follow the Pook "work on yourself, and they will come" mentality and those who follow the proactive ASF "practice makes perfect" mentality.

So what I'm proposing is why not do both? Work on yourself and constantly hone your skills with the ladies?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I did/do both, but no way in hell will I ever follow the ASF PUA tactics.
 

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SELF-MASTERY said:
I did/do both, but no way in hell will I ever follow the ASF PUA tactics.
Bit of a strong statement to make.

There some really good stuff on asf, allot better than on here (at the present time)

If you mean tactics as in using other peoples stories, palm reading and magic tricks, i agree i wouldn't do this, but apart from that there is some really good advice on there.

Saying no way in hell would you follow the pua tactics is like saying, no way in hell am i going to be interesting and sleep with a girl, because that actually is a tactic covered over at ASF.
 

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Saying no way in hell would you follow the pua tactics is like saying, no way in hell am i going to be interesting and sleep with a girl, because that actually is a tactic covered over at ASF.
Please:rolleyes: I do not need tactics and I never have to do c&f or do a neg--- and I don't have to play alpha. Most of you guys are actors.

I know what I am worth to women and I approach them with certainty.

This forum is entertainmet.

self-mastery= naturally c&f.

you do not perform your personality you are your personality
 
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