"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why not do both?

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There seems to be two warring factions on this board. Those who follow the Pook "work on yourself, and they will come" mentality and those who follow the proactive ASF "practice makes perfect" mentality.

So what I'm proposing is why not do both? Work on yourself and constantly hone your skills with the ladies?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I did/do both, but no way in hell will I ever follow the ASF PUA tactics.
 
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SELF-MASTERY said:
I did/do both, but no way in hell will I ever follow the ASF PUA tactics.
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Bit of a strong statement to make.

There some really good stuff on asf, allot better than on here (at the present time)

If you mean tactics as in using other peoples stories, palm reading and magic tricks, i agree i wouldn't do this, but apart from that there is some really good advice on there.

Saying no way in hell would you follow the pua tactics is like saying, no way in hell am i going to be interesting and sleep with a girl, because that actually is a tactic covered over at ASF.
 
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Saying no way in hell would you follow the pua tactics is like saying, no way in hell am i going to be interesting and sleep with a girl, because that actually is a tactic covered over at ASF.
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Please:rolleyes: I do not need tactics and I never have to do c&f or do a neg--- and I don't have to play alpha. Most of you guys are actors.

I know what I am worth to women and I approach them with certainty.

This forum is entertainmet.

self-mastery= naturally c&f.

you do not perform your personality you are your personality
 
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