"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why no woman can have it all.

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I read this in that article:
"Society has placed even more pressure on women today to look beautiful — all the time. More than 14.7 million plastic surgeries were conducted in 2011, mostly in North America, South Korea, Greece, and Italy".

Society has placed more pressure on women to look beautiful? Really? Then why are their so many grossly fat women with a$$es wider than the Grand Canyon?
The pressure, if any, to look beautiful comes from their own vanity and from other women--not men. There are many beta schlubs happy to put up with the grog monsters out there that parade as females.
And while some women increasingly opt for the surgical route, a large majority are happily eating their way to obesity, and a gym may as well be something on an alien planet.
 

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Zunder said:
I read this in that article:
"Society has placed even more pressure on women today to look beautiful — all the time. More than 14.7 million plastic surgeries were conducted in 2011, mostly in North America, South Korea, Greece, and Italy".

Society has placed more pressure on women to look beautiful? Really? Then why are their so many grossly fat women with a$$es wider than the Grand Canyon?
The pressure, if any, to look beautiful comes from their own vanity and from other women--not men. There are many beta schlubs happy to put up with the grog monsters out there that parade as females.
And while some women increasingly opt for the surgical route, a large majority are happily eating their way to obesity, and a gym may as well be something on an alien planet.
If you take it from woman prospective you will find it like the following:
she hit 30 without good partner or even kids , and now she has two choices, either to take what her look give her or shoot high to get the perfect guy, so all these surgeries is a try from woman to still able to get a quality of men she was getting before. it could be biological reason too that they are still trying to show a fake fertility to get some one to inseminate them, but the sociaty and career prevent her from completing this biological urge .
women dont say a truth , they still blame others (men , society, etc ) . no reason to read these articles
 

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evan12 said:
women dont say a truth , they still blame others (men , society, etc ) . no reason to read these articles
I'd say most "men" do the same. Make decisions without taking the time to think them through, find out they messed up, and then start pointing fingers like crazy.

Politicians have been leveraging this facet of human nature (my problems are not my fault) as long as there's been elections.


The feminist movement was just another standard political con job, where they (the movement leaders and politicians) conned women into thinking they could have everything if they only subscribed (voted) for the "cause."

Unfortunately, you can't escape the never ending jaws of economics:

Resources are scarce, human desires aren't.

You choose, or somebody else chooses for you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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