Why no student starts a conversation with a girl in the college

[evan12]

So I am currently in evening classes in college , and being 30 between mostly 20 I decide to step back and watch around be before I do any approach, what I found an ideal place to boys to hit on girls , it is safe environment and girls are in general friendly and nice ( with some hostile cvnt here and there for sure ) . but sureprisly no guy talking with a girl. a lot of sexless boys there look at the girls from far , many nerdy cute girls (umm my type ) . I was thinking in going and start a conversation with a girl , but not sure if that will look creepy especially I am older on average 9 years .

 

[Dhoulmagus]

The girls at my college have a smuggish attitude and shield themselves from guys with their girl shields. The only way to meet them is through mutual friends or look like channing tatum.

 

[MaddXMan]

College was awesome, bars and parties. Back to back girlfriends. How can you not meet women there. For me classes were poor for picking up but study groups were good.

 

[corrector]

I think you may be looking at this the wrong way. You do not want to approach because, like Stageer Lee, you are worried your "older looks" (i.e. I'm assuming you've aged in such a way that you look older.) But, yonger guys are also not approaching. What is keeping them back from approaching? Maybe they too think they are creepy for different reasons?

Does it logically look more creepy to steer at the girls and don't talk to them at all and then go home and fap about them, or is it more creepy to approach one of them and ask them how they are finding the course and starting a conversation?

I would imagine college girls are more game to having fun seeing many pick-up artists may use a college campus as a venue. It's a much better crowd than older people.

 

[Uncharted]

I'm a big fan of picking up girls on campus. Whether thats in class or around campus. I am a part time grad student but I've picked up undergraduates from 21-22 range. Your age will only be a problem if you let it be.

 

[evan12]

I think you may be looking at this the wrong way. You do not want to approach because, like Stageer Lee, you are worried your "older looks" (i.e. I'm assuming you've aged in such a way that you look older.) But, yonger guys are also not approaching. What is keeping them back from approaching? Maybe they too think they are creepy for different reasons?

Does it logically look more creepy to steer at the girls and don't talk to them at all and then go home and fap about them, or is it more creepy to approach one of them and ask them how they are finding the course and starting a conversation?

I would imagine college girls are more game to having fun seeing many pick-up artists may use a college campus as a venue. It's a much better crowd than older people.

you have a valid point, these guys here have unlimited options to be better socially , there are a lot of activities and opportunities to mix with other people, but the average guy here is below average , they seem they are not caring a lot for having girls or may be they dont think they are good enough to get a girl, from every 5 guys one of them seem to go to gym and have some stylish hair. most of them are very regular with very regular clothes.
I think until some one graduate then he know how much was the university or the college an easy place to build his social abilities and to pick up girls. I remember when I was in university I wasnt that interested in getting girls so I cant blame them.

 

[btownbuck2012]

you have a valid point, these guys here have unlimited options to be better socially , there are a lot of activities and opportunities to mix with other people, but the average guy here is below average , they seem they are not caring a lot for having girls or may be they dont think they are good enough to get a girl, from every 5 guys one of them seem to go to gym and have some stylish hair. most of them are very regular with very regular clothes.
I think until some one graduate then he know how much was the university or the college an easy place to build his social abilities and to pick up girls. I remember when I was in university I wasnt that interested in getting girls so I cant blame them.

Honestly, they'd be best suited to do well in school, focus on getting some type of part time job or internship so they can set themselves up for success post college. I agree that it's important to work on yourself socially as well, but focusing too much on girls in college can really f*ck a guys life and his future potential up.