"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why no college forum?

BwanaKuu

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There's a HS forum and one for older guys, this one is kind of for the 20s/30s age range, but what about us college kids? I think the game is different in college and there are some posts about it occasionally, but shouldn't it get its own forum? The issues at college are a bit different than the ones in this forum.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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While im not in college, I think that is a great idea, cuz college is completely diferent than any other time period. When I was in college, the ONLY socail interactions I had were with people of the same age range. Totally different ballgame than other life stages. Great idea.
 

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I would like to see a forum just for people to post field reports. We could learn a lot from those.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Desdinova said:
Was done years ago:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=23

But we can run the college forum idea by Allen.
If you could that would be awesome!

College is a lot different than the club/bar scene, parties are a bit different. I feel more social proof is needed in college (IE frat membership, sports team member, etc.) and techniques used are definitely a little different.
 
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If you could that would be awesome!

College is a lot different than the club/bar scene, parties are a bit different. I feel more social proof is needed in college (IE frat membership, sports team member, etc.) and techniques used are definitely a little different.

Dude, you're surrounded by thousands of single women who are looking to experience new things. It is, without a doubt, the best chance you will ever have at getting laid. I'll even give you the secret to success: get drunk around females. College b1tches aren't different than older women, except for the fact that they're more likely to have casual sex with you. All you have to do is try.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Dude, you're surrounded by thousands of single women who are looking to experience new things. It is, without a doubt, the best chance you will ever have at getting laid. I'll even give you the secret to success: get drunk around females. College b1tches aren't different than older women, except for the fact that they're more likely to have casual sex with you. All you have to do is try.
This is not true AT ALL. It's a myth. At least at my school. I have gotten drunk plenty to times near single women and it doesn't help. They just go for the hottest guys in the room or people hosting the party (usually frat brothers).

College parties are also very different from clubs and I feel the regular tactics don't work as well.

Plus I don't have "thousands of single women" I have MAYBE a thousand at my small school.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is not true AT ALL. It's a myth. At least at my school. I have gotten drunk plenty to times near single women and it doesn't help. They just go for the hottest guys in the room or people hosting the party (usually frat brothers).

College parties are also very different from clubs and I feel the regular tactics don't work as well.

Plus I don't have "thousands of single women" I have MAYBE a thousand at my small school.

You want to fvck college girls? Go read Gunwitch.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
You want to fvck college girls? Go read Gunwitch.
I'll attempt to "acquire" that.:whistle:

I'll add to my last post. Sure, the BASICS might be the same for all types of pick up, but there are a lot of different situations specific to college. That's why we have the high school and mature forums. Sure, the basics (C&F, kino, etc.) are all the same but there are different issues specific to that age range/location that are discussed in these forums. It also allows people of similar ages to congregate in one place.

Honestly, I don't understand how there hasn't been a suggestion for a college forum yet. It's probably the #1 time period during which guys are trying to get laid a lot. It's a very short period of your life and one of the greatest opportunities you have.

I read through the Gunwitch method and damn, it's probably the best material I've ever read. Mostly because it was VERY concrete and easy to implement instead of a lot of the vague stuff I've read. Wonder why it's not more popular... (granted, it's only useful if you want to get laid doesn't really include the whole don juan idea).
 
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