"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why MSN or facebook or anything involving messaging is not good

Walking Anomaly

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This is true...The fact that it is just text takes away from the other tools in a Dj's repetoire. Due to the fact that its text they can take as long as they need to think of a response to advances by you...much different than in person. In person, she cant hide her bodily expressions.

But it's a double edged sword in my experience...because even though she can take as long as she wants to respond to an IM, so can you, giving you time to come up with a ****y&funny comment...

IMO, AIM and whatnot also take away from the mystery you show when first courting a new chick...If you're always online even when you're not there (Have and away message telling where you are/what you're doing) she can always know what you're doing...I personally like to make them wonder what I'm doing, where I am, who I'm with, etc.

Being online with an away message telling where you are doesn't allow that.

~WA
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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