Why most users here don´t get laid

[JdelaSilviera]

It´s easy, most are computer nerds, with a terrible and negative way to see life.

You can spot that because you see a lot of users believing that love or even friendship don´t exist. Find a doctor really!

I´m not gonna get into arguments about the nature of love or friendship, just let me tell you that the fact of chemichals being involved it doesn´t make these experiences any less real.

If you keep this atittude in life you will end (actually you´ll probably commite suicide) lonely.
Women are usual happy people, they don´t want depressed freaks that think they understand the world better that anyone else and that other people lives are futile...

Just keep that in mind ! now go out, make friends, do sports, and stop whinning.

My last post here. This forum is no longer helpful and is a source of "bad energies".
Hope this wake some people, and I´m already expecting the "alpha males of the keyboard" or alpha males wannabe´s, telling me to fvck off and other stuff, this is also for you children.

ciao

 

[Diaforetikos]

If this is your last post, great advice. Sucks to lose one of the wiser ones here, but hey, we all gotta leave the barracks some time.


Good luck in life mate.

 

[NoCommitments]

I came on here after a breakup to get some solice. Its been a while since I was a dj but I'm getting back on the horse rather quickly! I am never on my comp but rather I write from my cell phone while on the road. So the whole claim of a keyboard alpha won't apply here.

I have no issues with women that I can't handle myself but its nice to know others have experienced some of the same situations. And maybe can give some advice.
I don't know who is on these forums. Book nerds that never get laid, dj's that always get laid, ppl that claim they always get laid but they don't....who knows & frankly who cares!! I only take advice with a grain of salt. Ultimately I form my own opinions & take action

What I do know is that negativity is based on someone's outlook on life. And to come on here & describe what's wrong with people or their lack of positive energy is, in itself, Negative!!

You're either part of a problem or part of the sollution!

I personally come on here & give advice based on my experiences.I'm very honest. When I'm hurt I'm not afraid to admit it. And when I'm successful getting the girl I'll try & share. Hopefully helpiing someone see things more positively!

Its not healthy to come on here & say "hey loser stop typing & go get laid" "this place is full of wannabes" . The ppl who write that are probably the wannabes they're describing

I feel many of the guys on here don't know much about women. So this is a place to vent, ask questions & post frustrations.
I see nothing wrong with that & I will continue to help anyone out there that's having issues with the opposite sex! I've been around the block many times!

Good luck jdela. & anyone else that feels that this forum is a waste of time

 

[PapiChulo]

You will be back. Most of the stuff on here I had tried personally and this compliments my own experience regardless from whom it's coming from. Heave the advice. You can believe in unicorns for all I care and that's coming from a nihilist such as myself.

 

[xdreamz]

So you say there are good friends, which isn't inaccurate accounted for by the fact that some do know how to. I find myself completely dissappointed. friendships can really destroy your lovelife it seems. they have the potential to ruin everything and anything. I posess no friends of any sort right now and although it may seem dismal and bedraggled, it is quite a comfortable lifestyle.

 

[Darth]

I agree with you regarding the pessimism shared by a lot of people here on love and on other things ("All women are sluts", etc). They're going to live lonely lives.

But as for the title of your thread, I don't try to "get laid" because that would be inconsistent with my belief that women shouldn't sleep around, either. Consistency in your beliefs and actions is an important thing.

On a sidenote, I think that's why more men from the 50's and 60's, etc. were real men and not "AFC's". Being an AFC comes from being desperate to have sex (among other things). When you don't care about that, it frees you up to do whatever you want.

(also they didn't have the internet, facebook, etc. so they spent more time doing stuff outside. When they read they read history or novels, rather than internet chat)

Finally, they believed in GOD. And they came from FAMILIES that worked. Which meant that they had a moral compass and were confident in how to act in a variety of situations, without having to resort to an internet message board to find out how they should act.

Sosuave is a good first step at deprogramming feminism and introducing the idea of unabashed masculinity back into your head, but if you want to be a real man you need to go beyond that. We can't divorce "being a man" from the other factors that went into men of that era- otherwise we just have a bunch of cavemen and it's a shallow imitation.