Why most hot girls aren't easy...

[Tails]

I was just thinking. You won't get too many hot girls chatting YOU up, sometimes yes, but not always.

I have come to the conclusion that;

Hot girls will not always be so open and willing to approach guys so much because all their life they have been brought up to believe almost all guys are the same:

being an @sshole, being a player, only wanting sex, etc. because in their past lives, alot of guys probably done bad things to them and they don't give in too easy now.

They also know they're hot so they don't need to chat up guys. They know they can get almost anyone whenever they want. So it doesn't really bother them if you're this really hot guy that wants to get her number, she'll probably just smile and walk off if you try a move on her.

Many just think that you want sex and then ditch them, like many guys. This is why they don't open up so much to guys these days, they know what we're like

 

[tactic]

Um.... If you ever look for a career and find one called "Getting Women"... make sure you tell them the exact number of days that you have experience with women.. Or months, if possible.

 

[Tails]

uhh, what the fuk are you on about?

 

[LostbutFound]

They're saying you're an AFC and have no idea what you're talking about because it seems you have little experience with women.

 

[xblitz44x]

Tails I happen to agree with them but I'll try to help you out.

Your 'conclusion' is filled with way too many assumptions and generalizations.

"Hot girls will not always be so open and willing to approach guys so much because all their life they have been brought up to believe almost all guys are the same"

Lets be honest, neither you, nor I, nor anybody else knows how *every* hot girl, or even *most* hot girls were raised. We have no idea how they were brought up. Some hot women don't approach, some ugly women don't approach. Has nothing to do with how 'hot' the women are. Or even that they are women at all. You're on a discussion board full of GUYS who don't approach. Women that don't approach, do so for the same reasons.

"if you're this really hot guy that wants to get her number, she'll probably just smile and walk off if you try a move on her."

If that were the case, then no 'hot girl' would ever date or get married because they'd never meet anybody.

Your error comes from the fact that just because YOU think a chick is hot, then so does she, and so does every other guy. And that for some reason her physical make-up dictates the power she has over you and other men. That is in YOUR head and it's YOUR hang-up. Did you ever stop to consider that maybe the reason your experiences with women that you think are attractive, end up the same way is because YOU are changing your own behavior based on this flawed idea? You are warping your actions to compensate for an idea that is faulty itself. Garbage in = Garbage out.

 

[baracus]

I agree with everyone else on this one.

 

[Tails]

i am sorry. i was wrong, heh. sorry guys.

i read all your posts and you're right. i just wanted to get that off my chest

 

[Sniper2k]

Fellow DJs, its basically like this: Hot girls think their the $hit so they won't tolerate or accept nothing but perfection. I'm not saying all, but most hotgirls are egotistical regardless if they were raised to be humble. They DO know they are hot and they DO know they CAN make a guy horny and come after her with just the slightest wink of the eye, maybe just a little smile.

ALL woman do want a real MAN though. A man who does not feel insecure about himself to the point where he believes that getting a hotgirl will magically turn him into a real man. Hotgirls are like just like US. We want to have power, control, be successful in life, be HAPPY. Hotgirls believe the real man can bring those, as do we sometimes believe the same thing about hotgirls.

Show women you are a prize that THEY have to work for! You can do that be showing them you are a healthy and happy guy. Women will be attracted to you and will take action to have you for themselves.

Realize that part of being a real man is taking control. That means that most of the time WE are the ones that are expected to take the initiative and be the leaders. The hotgirls don't chat up that much because they are insecure, probably more than you. Or perhaps they are uninterested, face it. Guess the only way to find out is to take initiative, go on and pimp on.

 

[rrrrr]

Hot girls probably think 10% of the male population is attractive. Okay girls think 40% is attractive with 10% being very hot. The only difference between a hot girl and a not hot girl is the hot girl can get the attention of guys she likes. She's not stuck up or above everyone, she has different views as to what's attractive/not attractive. She's in her own little world. If a girl is a 9 and she sees the following men: 7,7,5,6,7,4,5,7,5,8,5,5,6,7,9 she will say to herself this 9 is a hot guy and guess what the guy will probably like her since she's hot too. Others, the 7 and 8 are average to her. Unless you are in San Diego, 9's are not common.

I don't think it's egotistical or feeling better than anyone else, but when you like attractive people and they like you back you get used to it and that's what you go for. If you live a lavish lifestyle, that's what you know, you don't know anything else.

I'm sure it's the same for attractive males.

I also see old men and not so handsome men excited over plain or ugly women. It works both ways.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

I honestly don't think that lets say a B6 and a HB9 will due to their attractiveness find different guys attractive... A HB9 will often find just the same guys attractive...

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by xblitz44x


"Hot girls will not always be so open and willing to approach guys so much because all their life they have been brought up to believe almost all guys are the same"

Lets be honest, neither you, nor I, nor anybody else knows how *every* hot girl, or even *most* hot girls were raised. We have no idea how they were brought up. Some hot women don't approach, some ugly women don't approach. Has nothing to do with how 'hot' the women are. Or even that they are women at all. You're on a discussion board full of GUYS who don't approach. Women that don't approach, do so for the same reasons.

Yeah man.. theres ugly duckling sydrome.. havent you ever seen Shallow Hal?

 

[Ice Cold]

**** people. It's supply/demand at it's simplest. Don't foul the site with discussions like these