"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why Most Attractive Women Act Like Snobs

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Attractive women know that almost all guys approaching them are typically after one thing only...sex.

Whatever the reason, guys these days have become desperate horndogs. We beg for scraps of attention from women. You think that just because one chick smiled at you she wants to f*ck you.

Girls know this...they know that if they are too nice, too kind, that they will have an army of dudes trying to make the move on her. I knew one hot girl from high school that was nice and geez, you should have seen the legion of fanboys that were around worshipping her.

By contrast, the other chicks acted like cold-hearted *****es and the only guys they were seen with were the popular dudes that, believe it or not, actually treated them on or below their level.

The only thing that will lower a woman's ***** shield is to ignore it, but don't ignore her. Any kind of acknowledgement, whether overt or subtle, shows 2 things

1. She has power over who she interacts with
2. She realizes you were trying to get in her pants otherwise you would not have stopped talkin to her.

Eventually she might warm up to you if you plan on seeing her again. The key is to truly be indifferent to the outcome. Show her you have options and her having a P*ssy does not make her special. All women will appreciate and love you for this, heck, thats why they always go for players right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Driven2Succeed

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im gonna touch on this cause no one else has..

ur definitely right on what u said man.. i think most women these days throw up the b1tch shield to keep from having to deal with AFC's.. they will however drop it at will if they see somthing they like.. when a girl operates in this manner, she has total control of who she talks to and gets to know. i guess its sort of a safety mechanism, but also pushes a lot of decent guys away..but, thats her choice ya know?

in the 21st century women have a ton of power in the mating game. the advantage we have is knowing how to manipulate their emotions..and once we do that, and get them to see what awesome guys we are, we are good to go.. just sucks getting through that b1tch shield lol.. i personally wont even attempt it.. i actually have contempt for girls like that, and i treat them as if they are below me. and the crazy thing? sometimes it actually works in my advantage and they realize i am superior to them in status and knowledge and then the shield will come down..

bottom line.. we are animals man.. and we know what we are looking for.. if she has the shield up.. step off!!! or make her realize she is below u..this takes a lot of confidence and no fear of being called an a$$hole..which i could care less about
 

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I really

I really hate women who act this way. We need to find a way to fight this and bring the ***** shelid down.
 

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Ok post, but this has all been covered over and over again in the don juan bible..
 
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