Why men want younger girls according to a feminist board

[Who Dares Win]

http://jezebel.com/5857933/insecurity-invisibility-and-the-reason-older-men-want-to-date-you

Dont bother to read the article unless you have time to waste, just read the comments.

Im not even mad as I usually get when I read feminists, I feel amused, entarteined and sorry for their condition.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Reading what a bunch of used up 45 year old hags think.. what a waste of time.

You are a lawyer so you should know better, people like them can make much more political pressure than us, laws move in their direction.

Their votes are valued more than ours.

Think 3 or 4 steps in advance and not in the current position.

If you have no interest from a sociological point of view, consider the political implications of such toughts.

 

[Asmodeus]

Is that a link to Jezebel?
I am not clicking it... That website is trash. Complete drivel. It is filled with envious b!tches who are filled with self-hatred. But instead of dealing with their own self-hate in a reasonable way they rather spew their venom on meaningless articles. It is much easier for these women to blame men for their failures and frustrations, rather than to take responsibility.
I will not debase myself by even looking at that disgusting abortion of a website.

 

[El Payaso]

Don't give those witches any clicks.

 

[wifehunter]

Jezebel??? How appropriately named! LOL!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Reading what a bunch of used up 45 year old hags think.. what a waste of time.

I read their theory, and it is the same theory about why many of us believe they do the same thing.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Article written by a male. Expert in gender studies. Lectures on masculinity. True story.

Hugo Schwyzer is a professor of gender studies and history at Pasadena City College and a nationally-known speaker on sex, relationships, and masculinity.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Apparently the dude had a mental breakdown a couple years after writing that article.

http://www.lamag.com/longform/the-hugo-problem/

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

This is full of contradictions.

As usual, you get half truths all over the place; women talking about all this attention from much older men. What isn't ever mentioned is that, were one of those older men to be considered a suitable match, any one of those younger women would submit to him without a second thought.

This is a story about online dating, which many know is just a meat market now. The highest calibre men and women don't need to date online - the way to stand out latterly is NOT to be online. I deleted both of my accounts in the last week and have no intention of going back.

 

[RangerMIke]

When are you guys going to learn you should NEVER pay attention to what women say, only what they do. They know EXACTLY why men date younger women, and why younger women prefer older men.... and it isn't about age. I'm never seen a young woman dating an older man that works as a dish washer.

 

[Who Dares Win]

No need to get all passive aggressive like a woman.

But ok since you're thinking 3 or 4 steps in advance how is challenging their viewpoint that "old men who seek young women are disgusting" will actually better the bleak legal-political landscape we live in?

Seriously brad, ad hominem cause someone suggests a different point of view than yours?

I read your recent feud with other users here and I can see why your guard is high, but it wasnt an attack to you or your point of view, I post here from more than 3 yrs and anyone knows Im not into that stuff.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

When are you guys going to learn you should NEVER pay attention to what women say, only what they do. They know EXACTLY why men date younger women, and why younger women prefer older men.... and it isn't about age. I'm never seen a young woman dating an older man that works as a dish washer.

Exactly. That's what I mean by half truths. A very experienced man who know's woman speak can usually discern what she means and therefore can loosely rely on what she says - usually from the information that is left out. Let's look at the quotations from the article:

Veronica, age 37: "When I was first dating online in my late 20s, I got hundreds of emails a week. Eight years later, even though my pictures are better and my accomplishments more substantial, I get only a quarter as many. Most of the guys I hear from are over 50."

Sarah, 25, noted that these guys invariably claimed to be atypical 35 (or 45) year-olds: "They ask me to disregard my upper age limit, just for them - make an exception, they're different, really. They offer me their security and stability (financial and otherwise) in exchange for sharing my own passion and energy. Like they've 'checked-out' and want me to bring them back in."

[What is obviously going wrong here is that the guys are explicating rather than demonstrating]

Amelia, 28, wrote: "I see lots of men online over 35 who are looking for women 18-30. I wish they knew how big a turn-off that is. If you can't handle your peers, then you can't handle me." But she also pointed out that the transparency of older men's insecurity has a side benefit: "Maybe it's a public service (that these men so obviously pursue inappropriately younger women). If they lied and said they were interested in women their own age too, I might actually respond."

This last one from Amelia is just an out and out lie. If Joe Bloggs, 40, lives on a 100 foot yacht in the Bahamas 6 months/year, emails her online, looks like a poor woman's George Clooney, and is offering to fly her out to his boat at a moment's notice, I'm "sure" she wouldn't be inclined to respond. [not like a guy like that needs online dating anyway].

This is the point. None of these women say DIRECTLY that they are averse to dating older men. What they are actually indirectly saying is that the majority of older men approaching online don't match their unrealistic hypergamic expectations.

I would argue that we can always understand and believe what a woman is saying, when you are skilled enough to appropriately fill in the gaps in the half truths.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

A man opened my eyes this weekend. We were talking about ex's and he was talking about "crazy girls" who go to club and bar. And he pointed out they are a dime a dozen, like everywhere, and they are. These are the ones who dress up and you guys call them HB 7-9. Dime a dozen and I'm glad it was plainly said in that manner.

 

[Who Dares Win]

^ Just more passive aggression and avoidance of the issue from you, as always you're arguing like a woman while attacking me and then claiming that I am the one who gets personal.

Look, don't get upset and cry just because I pointed out how ridiculous you're being. That's what we're here for, and yes sometimes people don't like being called out when they act like girls. And you're free to voice any opinion you want, just be prepared for people to disagree with you and tell you when you're being silly. Maybe it is you who cannot handle criticism when you present a riduculous opinion.

Don't be so sensitive, and stop caring about what 45 year old hags think about your dating preferences. Of course they're gonna be bitter and not like it.

Listen I've been polite once even after being provoked for no other reason that disagreeing with you, wanna put it personal? fine.

Lets talk about a guy who despite being a moderator believes anyone here is trying to amog him and repeats premade old line, this process started after he split up with his gf and cried asking for compassion in the same forum where he is mod.

Whats next? you already said I type like a woman, maybe you had sex with my mother or Im gay? thats basically the gold standard in internet provocations, it may be useful for your next post.

Among his many feuds with random users we have a collection of epic bullsh1t like the one in the health and fitness forum where even a politically wise guy like bible belt basically asked him wtf he was saying, only to have a reframe instead of a correction of such bull**** (the macro nutrient talking).

What are you gonna do now? call me passive aggressive cause I replied the same way you did or you will ban me from the board to show what a strong man are you?

You moved from being a great user to be a wannabe thug in a matter of few weeks, thats personal.

 

[devilkingx2]

Who dares, you're obviously having a bad day my man. Look at the posters above me, they all said the same thing I did which is stop caring what old women think of you. It's nothing personal, we're just expressing our opinion. Now stop getting your panties all bunched up. Relax, it's just the internet - go grab a coffee and chill out or something.

hmmmm

No need to get all passive aggressive like a woman.

But ok since you're thinking 3 or 4 steps in advance how is challenging their viewpoint that "old men who seek young women are disgusting" will actually better the bleak legal-political landscape we live in?

^ Just more passive aggression and avoidance of the issue from you, as always you're arguing like a woman while attacking me and then claiming that I am the one who gets personal.

Look, don't get upset and cry just because I pointed out how ridiculous you're being. That's what we're here for, and yes sometimes people don't like being called out when they act like girls. And you're free to voice any opinion you want, just be prepared for people to disagree with you and tell you when you're being silly. Maybe it is you who cannot handle criticism when you present a riduculous opinion.

Don't be so sensitive, and stop caring about what 45 year old hags think about your dating preferences. Of course they're gonna be bitter and not like it.

lol, the irony is quite thick here, from the outside perspective he looks a lot calmer than you.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Who dares, you're obviously having a bad day my man. Look at the posters above me, they all said the same thing I did which is stop caring what old women think of you. It's nothing personal, we're just expressing our opinion. Now stop getting your panties all bunched up.

Relax, it's just the internet - go grab a coffee and chill out or something.

Who dares, you're obviously having a bad day my man. Look at the posters above me, they all said the same thing I did which is stop caring what old women think of you. It's nothing personal, we're just expressing our opinion. Now stop getting your panties all bunched up.

Relax, it's just the internet - go grab a coffee and chill out or something.

Im perfectly calm, you just tought that I lessen your value for some reason, I guess that line "you're a lawyer you should know better" which is a compliment implying you have knowledge of the system and the dynamis drove you mad cause you misunderstood.

Then you started talking about me being passive aggressive or hinting about bunched up panties, I repeat I meant no attack and when I suggested for you to look 4 steps in advance I meant to try to foresee the future not that you are too dumb to do it, which is what you probably got out of it, read again my messages if you believe Im making fun of you.

In 4 years I never had any feud in this board except one with a guy who got banned for insulting random people, I can send you in private the conversations to which I refer if you are curious.

No harsh feeling from me, you were used to post great content and often I gave you rep, its just that from few months you're red 24/7, just have a look in the health and fitness forum, its basically you arguing for pages over nonsense with people.

Just read this conversation, you are arguingin for pages with various users, writing poems just to show you're right while calling them names and such, this is not how a mod should behave, so let me return your suggestion, chill out but skip the cofee.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/natural-energy-sources-to-workout.233709/

 

[Yewki]

No harsh feeling from me, you were used to post great content and often I gave you rep, its just that from few months you're red 24/7, just have a look in the health and fitness forum, its basically you arguing for pages over nonsense with people.

Hate to pile on here but I used to respect the poster you're talking about too. I normally wouldn't bring this stuff up but since you already did... plus maybe another person chiming in might encourage him to reevaluate behavior