"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why men cling to women

Burroughs

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrNBEhzjg8I

Its an instinct deep in our subconscious

this is the primitive animal inside of us

men seek the woman who isn't there for her own biological self interest :crackup: , stemming from a desire to seek solace and warmth in another free from any selfish motive on her part :nervous:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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evan12

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I dont think it is accurate, the cave men and earlier people are not clingy to women at all , I know some tribes put women with cows while men live in houses
 
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