"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why men are scared of dating women

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Same reason women believe that gang r-pe lurks around every corner on our nation's university campuses... We blindly buy into headlines that either reinforce pre-existing beliefs we aren't even conscious of, or which APPEAR to offer simple explanations for all of life's ills. As the authors of https://www.amazon.com/You-Are-Being-Lied-Disinformation/dp/0966410076 pointed out decades ago, we're regularly exposed to distortions, myths, and outright lies by governments, the media(both mainstream AND independent), corporations, history books, organized religion, scientists with political agendas, activists, etc etc

A few million hours on The Manosphere, having the message "The Gynoncentric System is waiting to pull the rug out from beneath your feet", has left many gullible men terrified of traveling their beyond front doors
 

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Lol Men these days aren't technically scared of women, they're scared of commitment, especially in The West. Don't wanna be a deadbeat dad for some mega feminist of a gal and to top it off, the divorce courts are there to screw you over. They say it's better to have love and lost than not love at all, but there are better options and approach to do it like settling down and finding a home over seas, finding a remote job that works around a flexible schedule and go where the quality women are at - churches, mosques, quality social circles and other introspective avenues where sophisticated feminine women tend to hang out, etc
 
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