"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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joekerr31

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hahah - wtf - the stupid thing censored the word 'water' in saltw*ater.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr.Positive

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oldguy said:
Probably not that many. But when it comes to a pet that's another story. This just happened this week in Minneapolis:

http://www.startribune.com/local/17247504.html
Big difference though, she saved her pet dog. Where's the story where a woman saves her husband?

That's the matrix. The dog, worth the risk, child, of course, but us guys are easily replaced as husbands. In fact, it's mostlikely preferred in most cases.
 

ElChoclo

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You would probably enjoy the finalist film from 2008 Sydney Tropfest shorts entitled Great White Hunters. In it one sees the typical Aussie beach shark fisherman solving his problem of how to get his big bait out past the breakers. His solution, they take turns swimming it out on a surf board.

I like the part where someone just returns on his board and they already have a hookup. Later they reel in a juvenile white pointer. As one observes, this must mean that sometimes we are virtually dropping it on their heads.
 

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joekerr31 said:
how many women would jump on top of a croc to try and save their husband?

btw, is it just me, or does that lady look damn old for 36?
Would a woman jump on a croc to save her hubbie. Maybe she would UNLESS she just had her hair done..
 

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I once saved Mrs. Tomassi and one of our dogs from being pulled under by a very cold, very swift Truckee river when we lived near Lake Tahoe.

It was a spring run off from a very snowy winter and one of our dogs swam across it to get at a duck on the opposite side. He made it over, but coming back he was already wet & cold and the river took him. He drifted down about a quarter mile and got to our side, but the bank was too sheer and he couldn't get up and out so Mrs. Tomassi jumps in after him! I knew she'd be next because she was wearing sweat pants and they get heavy. She managed to grab the dog (about the size of a Lab) and then grab a big root in the side of the river wall, but the current was too swift and the water was ƒucking cold. I could see she wasn't going to be able to do what she thought she could, so I went in at this point. I managed to fight the current, but that cold water made my body feel like splinters were being shoved into my legs. I knew I wouldn't be able to hold out indefinitely, so I picked the dog up and literally heaved him up over the bank. After that I picked up Mrs. Tomassi and did the same to her. I had jeans on and they were like wearing icy cement at this point, but I managed to grab the same root my wife had been holding and had enough upper body strength left to climb it hand over hand to get out.

That was some crazy sh!t. We both agreed after that, that if the dog ever did something that stupid again we'd just go to the pound and look for another dog.
 

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crockeee!

gio saved me from drowning about a year before we got married. damn rip tide!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sex must have been amazing after both those harrowing events. :crackup:

"Ooh ahh! You're my hero!!" :crackup:
 
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