"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why Married Men Cheat
- Thread starter california girl
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Heh, someone here is way too arrogant. Even at 21 saying that would be dumb but 36? Yeah, sure.Originally posted by california girl
why I too a beautiful, stunning sexy woman who can have any SINGLE man i can want for..
california girl
New Member
no wonder u are on this site
i originally came to the forum KNOWING it was a MALE site...nott a littke boy who tells women to f off...no wonder u need advice here. i was offering an open door 4 all and any and still am to any advice iu need about woman. what i find is ironic is the fact that men cheat w/o us knowing and w/o telling the wife and mistree and the mistress is the hoe? what kind off 17 yo pot head mentality is that? sorry to say ..u habe ISSUES because u cant get wowen..there is no other reason 4 the negativity. we all fall prey to faultys and pyschosi of sme sort with the opposite sex. if u are a really suceessful..or not..but deeep down a happy person....the botom line is those that are genuinely hapy in life with or without a mate...dont throw rocks at girls..there moms ..there sisters.....because they are real men. and u wondeer why u cant get a woman....it is so obvious....anyone else have a problem w/ a woman email..i will tell u my opinion...honsetly......
i originally came to the forum KNOWING it was a MALE site...nott a littke boy who tells women to f off...no wonder u need advice here. i was offering an open door 4 all and any and still am to any advice iu need about woman. what i find is ironic is the fact that men cheat w/o us knowing and w/o telling the wife and mistree and the mistress is the hoe? what kind off 17 yo pot head mentality is that? sorry to say ..u habe ISSUES because u cant get wowen..there is no other reason 4 the negativity. we all fall prey to faultys and pyschosi of sme sort with the opposite sex. if u are a really suceessful..or not..but deeep down a happy person....the botom line is those that are genuinely hapy in life with or without a mate...dont throw rocks at girls..there moms ..there sisters.....because they are real men. and u wondeer why u cant get a woman....it is so obvious....anyone else have a problem w/ a woman email..i will tell u my opinion...honsetly......
SeldomSeen
Senior Don Juan
RE:
California Girl what are you looking for? I mean on this forum you're either going to get alot of young punks that dont know **** or other guys who don't care. So I ask what do you think you should do in your situation? What do you think you should do to enrich your own life? How can you make things work in your favor? Ask yourself those questions.
California Girl what are you looking for? I mean on this forum you're either going to get alot of young punks that dont know **** or other guys who don't care. So I ask what do you think you should do in your situation? What do you think you should do to enrich your own life? How can you make things work in your favor? Ask yourself those questions.
Yeah, no sh!t.Originally posted by belividere
you actually think this is a girl?
My guess is a either a 45 yr old man wearing panties looking to have electronic relations with young boys or a 15 yr old laughing hysterically about this entire thing. Either way its a lame troll
"She" can't write in full sentances or paragraphs, looks like her spelling has taken a downturn in the last few posts as well. I don't see any reason not to think this "california girl" is a 12 year old boy posting. OK, ok, maybe 14.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
This is a spam post if i ever saw one. Someone call an admin and stop this sh1t. Its boring pointless and should be LOCKED!
ADMIN!?
ADMIN!?
Originally posted by kev me723
well since all of these "men" trying to be "don juans" and claiming they are being great guys can't even figure out what a woman is saying after she rights a whole paragraph,
Paragraphs have sentences. Her drivel does not contain sentences. As such, the rest of us actual English speaking folk are unable to filter her "paragraph" through the gibberish translator... and then again through the ******** translator. Too much is lost in the translation. Like the entire bible.