"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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toasttopper1879

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I'm dressed really good today,smart suit which is unusual in my job.I talk to a group of girls who I know well and I'm getting some great compliments.
One girl decides to be nasty,but in a joking sort of way.She tells me no matter how I dress I'll always be a minger.(not good looking).Thing is this girl has until recently always been nice to me,loads of compliments,flirty and lots of kino and we fun fight and sometimes we talk sensible.She has a boyfriend so I've never really been too bothered,I just had her down as a flirt.Then just recently shes started droping these nasty comments about my looks,telling me how ugly I look although she still likes to talk to me.
Attention seeker probs,**** test defo,which I pass easy I hope,but I've no idea why the test.I've tried a search on this cos I reckon it'll be common but I could'nt find nothing.
Cheers all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jaun_Don

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Tell her to get ****ed and ask her "so what makes you so special"?
 

Smooth Player 056

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she likes you

That girl likes you, she sees you getting a bunch of attention from females and she is jealous and has to put you down. plain and simple
 

BrotherAP

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It's a neg hit. Reverse it on her somehow. Or just look at her look she's an idiot, then ignore her until she says something redeeming.
 

Qmanchoo

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There are a million insta-turn around neg hits that you can use to deflect that kind of ****.

"No matter how you dress you'll always be a minger"

"And once you learn how to dress you might be able to rise to my level!"

Although...comebacks can't really be canned...wit either comes to you or it doesn't.

And yeah, she wants your balls, but I'd stay awat from a brat like that unless it's just a ONS.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Julian

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i did
 
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