Why looks are irrelevant

[MotownMack]

I don't know why you think this was all aimed at you. I've basically told you numerous times if it doesn't apply to you, don't take offense. Yet you keep taking offense.

Regardless of who it was aimed at, re-read what you wrote. It's pretty condescending, you have to admit that.

Furthermore, there seems to be a thread a day like this, so it's neither novel or profound. Yes, some people get the wrong idea from the advice, some people take it too literally (actually, it seems like you've done a bit of this), and others will try to learn to much from reading and not enough doing. There will always some people that fall into these categories no matter what the subject matter happens to be.