"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stru8p you aren't telling me that Rollo didn't say that WAS THE END ALL BE ALL, did you read his post? Basically his wording was this was HOW IT IS
There is a HUGE difference between "THE END ALL BE ALL" and "HOW IT IS".

This is "HOW IT IS", but that doesn't mean that it's the ONLY factor women use when choosing a mate.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Man, I wish I had the patience and eloquence to write a well articulated reply like Rollo's.

Good stuff. I too wish that we could continue this as a civil debate, but as you pointed out, people don't want to see the gears and pulleys, all they care to see is the spit shined and polished exterior.
 

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Str8up, you are fvckin yourself up here ol buddy,

"This is "HOW IT IS", but that doesn't mean that it's the ONLY factor women use when choosing a mate."

OKAYYYYY, so you are saying that WOMEN LOOK FOR OTHER THINGS IN A GUY THEN???

Okay, now wait a minute Str8up, since you JUST ADMITTED that women LOOK FOR OTHER QUALITIES IN GUY TOO.....could it NOT be a possibility that the women look for CERTAIN QUALITIES MORE over OTHERS?

Andddd, andddd...hold up, could it NOT be a possibility that the QUALITES of that a number of women choose MORE over the others, COULD NOT IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM BE RELATED TO:

> Money, financial stablility
> Looks
> Status
> Being Strong
> Being Smart

COULD....COULDDD Str8up, could women POSSIBLY CHOOSE GUYS on OTHER QUALITIES (that you just admitted they did) other then the ones I just listed? Say Yes or No
 

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John-467 said:
NO...ROLLO.....b4 u close the thread....

ADDRESS WHAT I JUST SAID, you said you DIDN'T WNAT TO, nooooo do it.

In Pook's Voice: Be a man!!
No worries, I always give my critics the last word. I'm cool like that,..
 

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That said, I'm glad you're putting this thing to bed. Tough to get any work done responding to a post like this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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John-467 said:
COULD....COULDDD Str8up, could women POSSIBLY CHOOSE GUYS on OTHER QUALITIES (that you just admitted they did) other then the ones I just listed? Say Yes or No
Absolutely.

Just like I said.....no one claimed any different, you just read it that way.
 

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I'm done, peace out!
 

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Hahha Rolla you always give them the last word? So ummmm lemme see.

1.) You state a theory on a discussion forum

2.) A guy says, "Hey, I've experienced different, assuming your theory is true, could you explain why I've seen x, x, and y."

3.) You tell the guy, "Fvck off, you are my critic! How dare you question my theory...I am the Pope of Pvssy, you are not WORTH me explaining myself too."

haahah, in a Non Verbal way, that's what you just said. If your THEORY is so correct, why are you SO AGAINST ADDRESSING the "situations" I just brought up...which go counterintituative to your theory?
 

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(Shows Str8up da door >>>>>>>>>>>> {{ THE DOOR }})

hahah, dude leave it just shows that YOU CAN'T ADDRESS WHAT I SAID.

lol, "work done" dude you make 4 page research papers everyday on this site, try not doing that so much and you can get some work done.
 

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John, for the last time your claims of situations don't meet squat. Don't prove cause and effect, and at best are exceptions.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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And with that Thread Closed.

I'll go back and look in my 2 posts to see where I typed "Fvck Off you are my critic,.." now.
 
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