Why "Just Be Yourself" May not be Horrible..

[BadAS5]

Hey guys,

After spending a lot of time researching human behavior both in the field and in seminars, I have learned a lot about naturally projecting your own inner confidence. A lot of dating guru's rip on the advice of "Just be Yourself". I agree that "Be a Man" is better advice than JBY, but with experience, a have gotten a different perspective on things. In fact, I am at the point in my life where "being myself" is actually good advice because the "self" I am being is an Alpha male.

I've watched a lot of guys mature and progress into alpha-ness, and I've noticed that there are several key differences to their approaches that determine their levels of success. Guys who read about how alpha males behave, watch James Bond marathons, and become seminar junkies, are picking up correct behavior patterns. However, when they go to apply the behavior, they often fail. Women sense that these guys are not comfortable with what they're doing. These guys aren't being genuine. These guys aren't "being themselves".

It would appear that the best course of action is to apply a different approach. Instead of mocking behavior patterns and tricks that alpha males use, it is better to work at changing your "self". This way, when you be yourself, you are both attractive and genuine.

The question becomes, "How do I do it? How do I change myself?" Most guys don't realize a few key points about themselves. First, they don't truly know who they are to begin with. They act like insecure, ass-kissing, kniving, manipulative AFC's...AND they think they are being themselves! Being yourself means calling shots as you see them automatically. It means getting in touch with your natural responses to things. Think of a time when everything seems to work out. When you're with your buddies kicking it back and having a few beers. Think of a time when you have no weight on your shoulders and you just natrually have fun. This is your true self and this is the part you need to work on.

When a comedian learns a new joke, it takes about 11 times before he can get an audience cracking up. Why is this? it's because the first few times it isnt integrated into his self image. It doesnt sound natural. But with enough practice, he can both tell the joke and sound genuine because the joke has worked it's way into his self image.

In a similar way, evolution into alpha-ness involves working to slowly mold your self image instead of pretending to be someone you're not. If you can do this, "Just Be Yourself" will end up being the best advice you can get.

Over and out,
BadAss:box:

 

[KoalaKing]

The correct techniques to use in becomming a successful AlphaMale are different for every guy.

Lets face the facts, Elvis Presley, was a success singing a different style of song to what made, John Lennon, a success, Michael Jackson, is different again, all were awesome singers, but they all sang in a much different way to each other, it is the same when it comes to AlphaMales.

I have studied many different dating books and I have had to use these tips to see if they would work for me or not.

For example I read, David DeAngelo's, Double Your Dating, e-book, of which many of his tips worked for me, yet many others didn't.

I wouldn't try to model myself on a particular guy, you just have to work out your own personal strategy, one that you are comfortable with and one that is working for you.

Over the years I have read about thousands of techniques that are supposed to make you successful with the most attractive woman, but only about five of these suggestions have worked in my own life.

The keys to my being able to attract gorgeous girls were these below, all of which I was to learn through my studies of these various materials.

1/ I learnt to accept the fact that not every hot babe would desire to be with me, I began to accept their rejections concerning my advances towards them, and I came to acknowledge that if only one in every one hundred hot babes desired to be with me, then if I proceeded to approach and sarge as many as I could, then I would almost always have a hot babe to go out with.

2/ I began to do positive affirmations, I would constantly and still do tell myself that I am a success, that I am confident, and that the majority of the hottest babes desperately desire to be with me.

3/ I learnt to speak in a much deeper voice, I trained myself to do this, and it has paid great dividends for me.

4/ I began to learn and identify the differences in the body language of the hot babes who were just being friendly to the ones who really did have a crush on me.

5/ I began to enjoy my life, if I didn't have a hot babe with me I would still enjoy my favourite hobbies and pastimes and not worry about not being with a girl.

6/ I decided to be the best that I could be in all area's of my life, I began to work out at the gym, eat healthy foods, obtain academic qualifications, live in a great environment, etc.

7/ I began to be like a King, veiw myself as being the Prize, and I always approached hot babes with confidence but no expectations.

8/ Everytime that I talk to a hot babe I look her straight in the eyes, this has been powerful in my success with them.

All in all you can be very much the same guy as you always have been, but you just have to apply a few techniques that work for you and your success rate with obtaining the hottest babes will skyrocket.