"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why isnt this masculine?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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never heard of this

what makes a chin weak?

post a pic of a "weak" chin
 

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Don't you mean a "weak-jaw"? That's a term for coward or being weak.

..Like being "yellow".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know how relevant this is but recently there was some study done.

Two pictures of George Clooney and Brad Pitt. One with his features softend, and one with his features "masculinised", and they got some women to choose which picture they liked best, the results showed that woman on periods chose the more feminine of the pictures. Or vice versa, i forget.
 

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Mohammed Ali had a weak jaw, was he feminine?

I hope you mean jaw because chin really makes no sense. The jaw can be influenced by lifting weights, doing sports in overal. The testosterone will make the jaw bigger in time. But the strength of the jaw is genetically determined, it's got more to do with bone structure.
 

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if you want to make your jaw stronger just chew mass gum, i had my jaws wired shut for 6 weeks and lost all masculinity, i've been jewing whole packs and save the gum in the freezer so next time you chew on it it will be harder(because no flavor, my jaw is now almost back to normal
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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simple, its not an opinion it's a fact.

If you want to know what's masculine study the effects of testosterone on the body and mind.

Since Teststosterone in its effects will give the jaw a chiseled cut look. It is masculine feature. Study the faces of bodybuilders you'll see an extreme example.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Weak chin is bottom left:

http://www.nasalsurgery.org/reyes.jpg

You know, the ones where the face kind of melts into the neck (this is a very minor case, but just to illustrate a little)? I don't think it's unmasculine, I just think it's ugly. Depends how bad it is, though.
 

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
I don't know how relevant this is but recently there was some study done.

Two pictures of George Clooney and Brad Pitt. One with his features softend, and one with his features "masculinised", and they got some women to choose which picture they liked best, the results showed that woman on periods chose the more feminine of the pictures. Or vice versa, i forget.
Willl people stop quoting this study? It has been proved to be bullocks more often than anything else. This study was created by the same people who tell you beauty is on the inside.
 
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