"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why isn't there a contraceptive pill for men?

El Payaso

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It would certainly make things easier because I hate condoms.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jaylan

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I think part of it is getting the science right, and also part of it is putting the burden on women. Women's pill do a sh!t ton of things to their bodies...with hormones doing all sorts of stuff. But as soon as side effects are just a little too high of a percentage in trials for a male pill, then it gets axed.

From what Ive read the last 5 years, it doesnt seem like the big boys in the pharma community arent allowing enough progress with the male pill. Now, granted the hormonal side effects for men may suck a lot, and theres a different challenge when compared to the female body, but its 2015....we should have had one a while ago.

There are a bunch of science articles that would lead one to believe the old school view of birth control being the womans responsibility, is something that permeates the pharmacuetical community. But these dudes need to hurry up. Imagine if guys had a pill? Let a b!tch try to trap a guy once he has a condom and a pill in his arsenal.
 

SmooveMooves

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I could see a male pill causing a whole new set of problems. Gyno, low testosterone, permanent infertility. Lol I can hear it now.

"Its been 4 months since I took my pill and I still can't get my girl pregnant!"

IMO, I think we're better off where we're at. Where a condom and if you don't like that get the extra thin joints. Or pull out. You can't have a baby if you pull out. Haha

Also, the lastest article I read on the topic says they haven't gotten the science quite right yet. I'm sure we'll have one pretty soon.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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