"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why isn't the DJ Bible put together as a book?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Because the bible is not complete without my post on Gym DJing.

SamePendo´s Ultimate guide to the Gym, from yours truly, coming soon. A FR with many general tips on gym DJing. You´ve aint seen nothin yet.
 
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Amateur_FOR_NOW said:
Why isn't the DJ Bible put together as a book instead of a bunch of articles?

I have a hard time printing it out
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I think this stuff should only be known by those who were out looking for a better way. If every jerk in the world knows all this stuff then it'd be slim pickings for those who decided for ourselves to change our situation instead of just stumbling on it while feeling sorry for ourselves.

I think most of us were googling something or other when we came upon this website... or came from another similar site with a link.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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