I live in Fort Wayne, Indiana and I recently attended the last day of the 3 Rivers Festival. There were thousands of people there and alot of them were very cute girls. I noticed, however, that nearly EVERY cute girl I saw was wearing sunglasses! Why is this?!?!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why is this?
- Thread starter Tom Juan
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