"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why is this quote so true?

n00bPimp

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"If you are rich, no matter how you got it, you are given instant respect and praised as a golden calf."

Why is the quote above true? If you have $$$$$$, you can live like a slob and treat people like sh-t and still be praised by society. ie. celebrities and rich folks.

If you have to live off canned spam, go to the dollar theatre, and cut your own hair, yet are a good person, people look at you like you're worthless.

What's wrong with this picture??????????
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PDubb75

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For the far majority of people, almost all of their life revolves around doing something to earn money. It's only natural for someone with a lot of money to be looked at as successful, and therefore "praised".

I think a lot of people tend to come up with excuses for rich people to justify their behavior. They see the person's success in an area they would also like to be successful in, and they either assume their attitude had something to do with it, or think they have a good reason for it.

When someone feels jealousy or is envious of someone, it's easy to pedastal them.
 

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people always want something for nothing. Its natural to seek the fastest way to a solution with the minimal effort. A rich person might be able to provide this avenue, so people will put them on a pedestal in order to have a chance at getting some of the pie. A poor person has nothing to offer and people are generally indifferent towards someone with nothing to offer them. Its why con artists like yellow kid was able to get to Capone, and why victor lustig was able to 'sell the Eiffel tower' - they had a keep understanding of the human condition. A quote I have up on my facebook

They knew little and cared less about their fellow men. if they had been keener students of human nature, if they had given more time to companionship with their fellows and less to chase the almighty dollar, they wouldn't have been such easy marks
he took the predictable nature i mentioned above and was able to exploit it.

That is a bit of a tangent from answering the topic's question. So why do people respect rich people, but ignore average people? Part of the answer is they want a piece for themselves. The other part is that mediocrity is boring, which is why people will never admit themselves 'average'.
 

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Money is a total indicator of social status nowadays and not the person behind the money. I don't put anyhting past anyone. You put that same rich guy in a ghetto with nothing to speak of and he'll suck deek for crack just as fast as as any pro crack head. The only way I will give anyone credit for being rich is if I know that they earned it through their own innovation and creativity. At least that tells me something about who they are. But some random rich person if anything will have to overcome a bit of a bias with me before I start considering them.
 
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