"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Why is this pissing me off so much?

Prodigy746

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I got this girls number twice and never bothered to call her. I see her as HB7 and mostly because she has a nice a55 and i love that bootey. I worked with her and she gave it to me without even me asking for it and i never called her. I deleted it after a while and later on asked for it again because i was gonna let her study with me and my friend one time. Again i never called her to study and at one point she was pretty mad at me barely talking to me at work. After that we became pretty cool but i didnt transfer her number to my new cell. Anyway 2 weeks ago she got fired for being late and i went on facebook to talk to her and sent her msg saying "Let me get your number i need to talk to you." I was gonna help her get a new job because i felt bad for her , i heard she was crying after being fired for being 5 mins late. She never answered so today i saw her when she came by the company, she gave me a hug and i just said what you dont check your facebook msgs. She said that she saw it and was gonna reply later but forgot. Today i saw her on facebook and she still didnt reply which really pissed me off.

I guess i can understand why she wouldnt give me her number , i never bothered to call her before 2 times when she gave me the number. Besides i think its pretty funny getting the number from same girl 3 times but it still pisses me off for some reason. Even though i really dont give a crap about her. Why do i care???... sometimes i really cant figure my self out.
 

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Prodigy746 said:
I guess i can understand why she wouldnt give me her number , i never bothered to call her before 2 times when she gave me the number. Besides i think its pretty funny getting the number from same girl 3 times but it still pisses me off for some reason. Even though i really dont give a crap about her. Why do i care???... sometimes i really cant figure my self out.
If you never had any interest in her to begin with then what does it matter? It sounds like your ego took a hit when she didn't respond so I suggest you get over it. You didn't give her the time of day before so why is she going to bother with you now?
 

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Haha yea bud. You didn't respond to her, don't get mad when she doesn't respond to you. Learn from it, if it made you mad, chances are it made her mad.
 

Prodigy746

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yah i understand why she didnt respond to me, I dont understand why it is bothering me that she didnt respond because i dont care about this chick. I guess you could say my ego got hurt but why would it get hurt by a chick i am not even interested in. Oh well ill just forget about it, its her loss anyway. I was gonna help her get a job that pays $12-$13/ hr which is more than she was making at the other one. Not to mention it would be much easier working in an office than at customer service at a retail store (thats what she was dong before). I am sure she will have a hard time finding a job because she got terminated for attendance and who wants to hire someone that is constantly late or calling out.
 
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